Had a first date today. Got coffee. Met up, a bit awkward at first but got to story telling and a tiny bit of kino. I am 5 years older then her and we are both young. I think she was nervous around me. She was laughing, and ended it after an hour or so. I told her I'd contact her. She said do so and laughed, but was walking ahead of me as to avoid a kiss during the day. I'd rate the date at like a 7.

I text her after the date. Told her she should come over for a drink the next day after work at night. She jokingly asked if I was going to slip something into her drink. I passed her shit test though. She said she might be able to but she had plans after work already and had to get up early the next day. Said she didn't want to flake on me, so don't take it as a flake but I could text her. I suggested the next day and she said she might be drunk at a b day party. I said I'd make other plans (and made sure to seem busy at all times during this.) She suggested monday now. I said to come over, and she said she'd meet me at the park at a given time.

I will take her home after we meet and do the dirty deed.

The fact that she had plans both days but still kind of wanted me to text her for maybe plans, and then suggested monday when she was free is great right? She seemed really considerate of my time with not wanting to flake and putting it out there. I tend to overthink things because of the bit of awkwardness during our date. Do I seem in good shape though?

as long as she still meets you there definitely is some interest. at least, she thinks you're cool enough to deserve a second shot even if you failed to escalate when she wanted you to.
this time, go for the kiss though.

there are girls who will feel shy on a first date and not show openness to a kiss. definitely happened to me: first date with S was just a quick chat in a bar. second date, kiss and then heavy makeout for hours. third date, sex and sleepover.

getting her to your place is a good plan. I brought S home with the excuse of using the bathroom. when she got out of it, I started playing with her, trying to tickle her and she would push me back. a few seconds into that, I went for the kiss. worked wonders. she later told me she knew I had some plan in mind and was eager to see what it was. she was down for it, was just waiting for the move to happen. but I am sure she would have rejected it on the first date.

second date is the time to go for some level of intimacy. for me, it's the last call. if it doesn't happen by then, something has gone awry and your best choice might be to next. it happened to me, had two dates with a hot Stanford Hospital employee. failed to kino properly on first date. second date was at my place. tried to kino, but she was very non-receptive. went for a kiss at the end, got the cheek. next.

another point worth considering: some girls believe they should not let-go too easily with a guy they are considering for an LTR. if she is out on the market for a BF, she might have this whole idea of a right number of dates before kissing, ... all the way to full intercourse. this can go anywhere from "first date makeout, second date sex" to "no fucking before three dates", to even longer periods. of course, if your game is tight enough or the chemistry is just perfect you could override this social programming (I slept with my current GF on our first date - in spite of she thinking the above). but it might be a problem down the road when she questions if she did the right thing, if she is a slut in your book, ...
if all you care about is a ONS, not your problem definitely. otherwise, consider the option of making the girl as horny as possible, but letting her set the pace. with S, it worked. she was not willing to have sex on the second date, but was down for make out on my bed as long as we both kept underwear on. I pushed her to the limit of horniness, and she was almost going to crack. then I told her it was best for her to go home and wait for the next time to go all the way. needless to say, there was a next time. needless to say, she loved my cock, until I broke her heart.

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