Ok so I got this issue with not knowing what to say to girls.

I was at a sport's bar the other night and my wingman and I played some pong with these two other guys. Well after that game I go upstairs to a club area they have. I see one of the guys I played up there and he asks me to introduce him to these girls that are standing next to me which I had no clue who they were. Well I told him I didn't know them so he says "Watch this."

He walks over to them and starts talking and I really can't hear what he is talking about but I piece together that he is telling these girls how crazy my wingman and I are. So he was trying to help us out. But to me it started to seem as though he was unknowingly using the Straw Man Technique because we had nothing to back that up with and the girls were ALL over him.

So I introduced myself to one of the girls that actually seemed interested (there were three girls) and just replied with, "What exactly is he saying I can hardly hear him lol", so she told me and I was like, "Nah, I'm not that crazy, I've had my moments though." and they just sorta walked away. I saw her later on throughout the night and she was cheesin' so hard at me the whole time.

Then I met up with that guy and his buddy outside after it ended to ask him WHAT THE HELL HE JUST DID because those girls were all over him and he was trying to DHV me. And he was shocked because he didn't realize they were. So as I'm talking with him that girl shows up and I said, "Oh hey it's you again " and then her fat friend butts in talking to me but I'm not an ass so I have a good conversation with her. Then the girl saves me and we start talking and I don't even know what I was saying but I just started talking and we started hugging all over eachother. But I ruined it because my car was right there and I just said I have to go...I didn't get her number. I guess I'm afraid of rejection.

So my first question is, when I end up in a situation where I have to DHV myself because someone is telling others how crazy I am, what am I supposed to say exactly?

And my second question is, what are some good ways to close for a number?

Dude...It was sooooo obvious she wanted to give you her number and hook up! I mean it could have been as simple as "Put your number in my phone, and we can hook up later or some other time" BAM. That's all man. The odds of you being rejected when a girl gives you IOI's such as hugging, kissing, or smiling at you the whole night, is like the chances of a penny dropped from space hitting you in the head. At this point you can do what you want. Except do things to turn her off.

Once you get over your fear of rejection, everything else starts to fall in to place. If you were not scared of getting rejected, you would have simply ask for the number and it would have been done.

If you built good amount of attraction and comfort, you don't need any fancy routines to number close. And chances are, the number will be solid. If your attraction and comfort game suck and you use number close routine to get number, the number is gonna be flaky. So don't try to run bad game and make up for it by fancy number close routine. Learn how to walk before you can run.

When your wingman says stuff about you that's positive, play along with it. Get creative. Never go against him.

Wingman: Meet my buddy here, this guy is freaking crazy!
You: hey now, I am only crazy after 9 pm.

Now this should open up more conversation thread from the girl.

Haha yeeaahh, tbh I really haven't ever number closed before. All the girls I ever hooked up with before are girls I met in school. I'm out of school now and new to partying and all so I'm just trying to get into the swing of things. This is a major sticking point! It's like I don't know how to say it. I've seen people do it a million times over youtube but when I get to that point I'm like, "uhh, it was really good to meet you ." AFC as fuuhhhh.

That's a really good response to give. Not like it matters, but it wasn't my wingman it was another guy who was DHVing us. It really bugs me. I can talk to people eeaassyy with daygame. I guess I have more of a low energy around people I don't know and with people I know really well my energy level is high as birds. I'm really not good with talking to girls in clubs because the loud, motion based SPAM really distracts me. I guess I have a bad case of ADD

If you think you have ADD, go see a doctor. It will really screw up your social skills.

i understand dude...But really the hardest part most guys struggle with is opening females(which is relatively easy). All you gotta do is ask! You gotta go outisde your comfort zone and ask man. If not you will walk away beating yourself up about it..

Some one told me this before... "How do you know what will become of your window of opportunity if you don't take the risk to trying?"

Remember that..Very powerful. i always think of this statement when i get approach anxiety or something.

Preciate it guys!

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