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PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2012 5:55 pm 
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Girl at work has been friendly with me and even told me I was one of her fav ppl there. I haven't seen her in awhile and just saw her last night (we work diff shifts). I made mention to her that we haven't seen each other in about a month and she said she had been looking on the schedule every day to see if I worked or not. I said that was really sweet of her and we hugged.

Last I knew, she had been on and off with a guy but I am not sure if she's single or not.

I am having a friend look into it for me but not telling her I'm wondering.

Its hard for me to tell if she's into me or she just wants to be friends.

What move should I make next?

Any help would be appreciated, I really am not good at this shit! I learned long ago that it's a fruitless battle to try to understand what a woman is thinking/feeling.


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PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2012 6:33 pm 
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Tell her, "why don't you give me your number so we can stay in contact."

Dude, she's practically throwing herself at you. Your first objective is to get her # so she knows you're interested.


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 4:33 pm 
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Well before I asked her, I found out from friend that she just learned that she's pregnant.

There goes that whole thing haha


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 4:57 pm 
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Lucky you, that was a close one.


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 7:17 pm 
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Lucky you, that was a close one.

Ive decided to give her a chance. She always showed interest in me even before she found out she was pregnant (she just found out the other day; she isn't showing yet) so I don't think she sees me as a sugar daddy to use me.

I saw her at work the other day and things were good although she didnt tell me she was pregnant yet (found out from a coworker).

Based on our last handful of encounters and her reactions to my advances I messaged her on facebook and asked if she was still seeing her ex or if she was done with him. Last I knew they were "taking it slow"....in response she sent me her cell number.

I haven't texted her yet but plan on doing so tommorrow (don't want to appear too available).

She is pregnant from what I've been told but if she continues to show interest in me then I will give her a chance. She already has one strike on her b/c of the pregnancy but hasn't shown any more strikes. If she doesn't flake on me and treats me good then I'll give her a shot and see how things go.

If she tells me shes trying to get back with her ex (father of kid?) then I'll immediately friendzone her. If she flakes on me or pisses me off I'll probably immediately friendzone her as well.

Based on what I know so far though I think she deserves a chance.

Thoughts?


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