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PostPosted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 1:57 am 
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Texted this girl I really like that I will be working/staying in Maryland (she lives in VA) this week asking her if she wanted to come up for dinner one night and her response was:

Maybe maybe

That can't be good...I didn't respond yet. Don't know if I should or what I should say. I want to show her that I am confident and that she should be dying to come see me, but this definitely isn't a good vibe. Ideas?


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I don't think you can tell from that response if it's bad or good. It all depends on voice tone which you don't have. It could be said avoidantly or with a lot of flirtation. So you have to keep talking to find out more what the real feeling is.

Just another example of how important nonverbal communication is. It's by far the majority of the message.

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Great point...but now I don;t know how to respond to that. Any good response ideas to keep the flirting up?


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What's her personality like?

Is it her style to be a smart ass? Is she non-commital? Much of this has to do with where the answer could lie...

Then again, you could call her. "Maybe maybe? What's that shit? Now, dinner's on you."



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Then again, you could call her. "Maybe maybe? What's that shit? Now, dinner's on you."

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lol'd :lol:
Respect for that. I like it.

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Her personality is real adventurous and exciting. She likes spontaneity and people who are different.

I don't know her to be much of a smart ass, but she is definitely being one with maybe maybe. She's the type of girl who needs excitement in a text b/c shes hot and gets chased by many dudes.

I just need something to write to her that will make her realize that im the f*ckin man and that maybe maybe shit wont fly, all in a joking manner. ANy other ideas on a reply?


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Her personality is real adventurous and exciting. She likes spontaneity and people who are different.

I don't know her to be much of a smart ass, but she is definitely being one with maybe maybe. She's the type of girl who needs excitement in a text b/c shes hot and gets chased by many dudes.

I just need something to write to her that will make her realize that im the f*ckin man and that maybe maybe shit wont fly, all in a joking manner. ANy other ideas on a reply?
Not from me.

I'd call her.

If I want to show a chick I'm the fucking man, I set a date and do that in person.

Text to phone to fuck - that's my order.

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I know this chick really well and also know she HATES using the phone so text is my only way unfortunately.


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Maybe maybe, I'll take someone else :) do you have a hot sister? LOL

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How about "Maybe is the worst word in the English dictionary."


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Well I sent that previous text and didn't get a response...How do you think she took it?


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Well I sent that previous text and didn't get a response...How do you think she took it?
Um.... you really need to ask?

Dude.... either send another random text (last gasp), or find another chick.... I'd say option B is the best bet. Chick sounds like a flake.


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I sent that b/c her maybe maybe was so frustrating. I didn't know how to respond so I sent that. Probably not a nice response, but whatever I had to try something.


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I agree with RR for the most part! Tell her that the plans are made and you will see her there! Take charge!

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I sent that b/c her maybe maybe was so frustrating. I didn't know how to respond so I sent that. Probably not a nice response, but whatever I had to try something.
It wasn't "failure"... it was just one more way not to text a chick later on...

Everything is practice. Everything is a learning experience.

No worries.

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