Ok i go away in 9 days an i plan on doing daygame all day everyday
What i have realised is that what puts me off approaching is not the fact that i wont be able to fclose the girl I think its pretty easy in the daytime epsically on holiday its the fact that i think i will come waaaay to fast without any drink in me this = reasons for crazy nights i dont even remember. When im drunk im an animal in bed really wild fish-hooking dominant affectionate i even crack myself up sometimes with the stuff i say.

Also i need help with an opener everytime i open in my head i always start with excuse me it just seems the easiest way to get someones attension whos moving
excuse me darling is the exact words that comes to my mind.
Once iv opened then its pretty simple to just talk random rubbish an play about tease an all that. Maybe hi would work but it doesnt seem to fit for daygame espically direct i prefere saschas direct talk straight to the point excuse me darling dont take this the wrong way or out but i just saw you from over there an i had to stop you to say you look absoulutley stunning. Any ideas on how i can get rid of excuse me ???? i also dont want them to think im a PR guy because its full of them abroad trying to get people in bars any ideas ???? cheers guys

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lol when reading this for some reason I felt that you were rapping!! Anyway, it's summer now so my opener normally is " Hello hello.. looking summery today are we?" To be honest, have a bit of eye contact before you approach and just say would be great too..

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Simple, just start with a "Hey Guys", or if they're on their own "Hey" (obviously say it in a friendly way!) and you're off and running. It puts them at ease and also implies more confidence. "Excuse me" just sounds like you're apologising before you've even said anything.

what I do is open with something about situation. Don't think of it in terms of you're gonna get a number or laid. Any time you start with "hey" it can be effective but statistically speaking it's not the best way to start a conversation with a stranger. I will give you a few examples of day opens I've done this month;

girl in walmart with scrubs and a hospital t-shirt on; do you work at childrens? "yes". are you an RN ? yes. (I walked off then a few seconds later she came up and approached me )even if she wasn't wearing those clothes I had other openers about what was in her cart.

woman at kroger parking lot putting big sacks of crap in her car " is that heavy"
2 women walking out of local gas station in summer clothes at 4pm" are ya'll going to the pool"

Another woman at gas station in a tennis skirt "have you been playing tennis"
another woman in a gas station parking lot with Alabama licsense plate " are you an alabama football fan"

One popular thing I've used when I didn't have anything else on a couple women around stores was " have these petitioner's (upcoming election) been asking you to sign stuff?

Girl at baseball game "did you see the pitcher do ____ "

I pretty much say the stuff in passing and have learned how to read from the body language if they are gonna open up for conversation. If you ease in to them and don't make it obvious you are interested in their looks, it's easier to get in conversation. But, "hey" is always decent.

Thanks for the advice and tips

Rapping haha was listing to music so i might of typed along to that although im more of a dance man ultrabeat an that.

Yes i may just keep it at hey to make things simpler for me although im going to give a try too openers on what there doing a bit under the radar.

Its a holiday place so in the daytime all girls in binkins walking up an down the strip all day i went away last year an hardly day timed opened but iv never seen so many hbs in one place constant rock on.

Another question is how can i close i want to go from street to bed maybe a drink first is it best to just say lets go my room take her hand an walk off.
Best thing about being abroad accents makes it easier.

I go for 2 weeks an my oneitis is going there aswell but i dont see it as bad to have oneitis if you get her.
She comes like 10 days in it so im going to her hotel an see her round the pool so im going to use the 10 days of pure training.

I came to many realistations recentley an i can not wait to go wild over there life changing 2 weeks in store for me.

If any off this doesnt make any sense to you its probabably cos im as high as a hot air ballon an im not even sure it makes sense to me lol

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