Hey guys just need some help on some stuff with this lady im trying to create attraction with ill give some backround first.

Shes 23 im 20, shes said several times she dates older guys and my group of friends are young but has said im on the mature side and what not. She has also sent me a ton of IOIs and we talk on and off through out the day over text and in person when she is working and I visit.

The thing i need the most help with is averting messages like this "lol Im way to old for any of you boys"

my response was "haha you act like we are all 10 year olds your only 23"

then she mentioned how she only dates older guys and we got into a conversation with life experience and what not.

Im just looking for a way to successfully say something without it being a neg and making her feel like shes wrong when she says that i cant find the words though over text or in person. Ide really appretiate the help guys thanks for reading, Cheers!

I would ignore talking about anything that would pysche herout of wanting to be with you. Like I would never talk about age. The more she dwells on a negative thought and feeling the more its going to build. So when she brings it up spin it then change the subject.

If you get a comment about age always put a positive spin on it. Your age is a positive. your age is a positive.

"Girl you know you want a young stud"

"its cool you can keep up, i believe in you"

"...yea because I have to be a certain age to make you happy" (sarcasm)

I would make fun of her and say "Hows your arthritis? Do you need some bengay?"

This is abolutely key with women: planting seeds and cutting weeds. Its all about mental ideas.

Chances are she is worried about what here friends or society will say. People are like that. IF it its clear thats an issue. I would just tease her about that.

thanks a lot ! thats usually what i try to do, when we got into the conversation about life experience i made it seem like we were practically the same i just needed some better lines like the ones you offered, thanks again!

Tell her you like older women... the though fo her being a MILF "in a couple years" is sexy as fuck.

Sure, it's a neg - but you deliver it as a compliment and defend it as such!

BTW - it's the opposite when you hit my age... LOL


RR

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Try not to fall into the chase frame. If so, don't get yourself deeper into it. Is only gonna make stuff harder.