i got this hb ive been trying to bang for almost 2 months. shes turned me down for even a kiss twice saying she got out of a relationship so i try easing her off only to having her call me when she sees me dancing with another girl. i take her out again invite her over and she switches last minute. so i stopped contacting her.

she texts me today to go out on the 27th i play along and say yes now shes complaining that she has no job and shes broke. so i dont answer... this girl
is a 10/10 but is young and broke im 41 shes 22 but she doesnt care and same with me but this hard to get thing is turning me off i refuse to be stuck in a friend zone. and i dont want to spend any more money if im not getting anything in return. dinner and a concert is enough cause i can see where thats leading...

help me with the shagging!

Could be she is using you as her sugar daddy. I mean if you get to use her as a pussy mommy, go for it.

How to shag....I'm not sure this girl is serious about shagging you...in fact I question her intent immensely and her truthfulness in the matter. I'd say many other girls out there player. Glad to see you're still in the game. Keep on gaming. Move on man.

Thaks man the nets getting wider anyway its summer lol still would bang her tho lol amazon with mad curves lol

she is definielty using you. dont fall for it. she either puts out, or you put her out.

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Jessejax...

Gain compliance and recalibrate.

Invite her over before hand. If she flakes, move on. If she doesn't escalate and ensure there is NO chance for friendzone.

I tell any woman I'm with early on the friendzone isn't a place I'll live.

her: I just am ready for friends right now (however a chick says it - it's the same shit)....
me: I understand, and friendship is very important - it builds the foundation... but at some point, I'm going to want to kiss you deeply anbd passionately - and we'll have to deal with that!"

Then monitor her response.

Calibrate then early and you won't succomb to the "I wonder if she knows I want to kiss her..." Truth: She knows! She knows and is playing her cards to get what she wants - it's human nature. You are simply doing the same.

RR

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