Little about me: 25years old. Latino. Lives in Chicago Area. Shy. Ackward. Social Anxiety. Fear of speaking in groups. Prone to stuttering , hesitation etc. I've always been the guy people tell "Why are you so quiet?" "Dont you feel like you want to get involved in the conversation?" "Say something man" "YOu are too nice"....Lots of bad experiences hunt me till this day. I have very low self confidence, low self-esteem and I put girls on a pedestal which results in having a lot of fear when Im around them. I avoid the cute cashiers and go to the guy or older women cash register and it kills me that Im such a coward.
I feel like I need to change now before i get too old.
I plan on taking salsa dance lessons, martial arts, public speaking classes and start going out and approaching girls with the help of these forums and would be real nice to hang out with some people that understand where Im coming from and are also in the journey to become social and succesfull with women. Anyone interested of doing these and/or other things with me to improve social skill ????

PM me with any questions

Hey Epic fail Having low confidence is not the end of the world I have seen guys who are really bad in this department. While having a wing can help you break down these walls it's you and only you that can do anything about it.

Now this all sounds cliche and any PUA will tell you the same thing but get out there and practice.

You say you plan on doing salsa and martial arts don't plan I want you to go and do it next week. I want you to go to the mall and pick out some new clothes (i wouldn't go to flashy with it) and when you are there I want you to say hi to all the women you see ugly or bombshell. Some will even stop to say a word with you. I used to have low self confidence too

I joined a gym and went to the mall if I seen a cute girl I would jump right in rejection is the smallest hurdle you have in life I can't stress this anymore. You are probably telling yourself what if she says no, well everyone will be like damn that guy has got balls what a beast! I guarantee if you laugh it off and SEE what you did wrong you will get better. there is no such thing as bitchy girls just slopped game i truly believe this.

Also, and i really stress this take an improv comedy class this will really bring you out of your shell comedy is the essential to a womens chastity belt.