Okay so it's my musician friend's birthday so my friends have gathered at the local pub which we shall call the horse 'n groom. My musician friend brought his musician friend who brought the judge's clerk, who is his HB9 girlfriend. So she finds out some things about me and then sends one of her friends HB8 who works at another law office in my town. This HB8 grasps my hand and places it on her boob and starts saying things which sound remarkably similar to blah blah blah my boss is so and so. As it gradually dawns on me that I have to say something back to her, before a pregnant pause begins to haunt the conversation, I decide to blurt out that

"I think I have love at first sight with you."

I say this in a context where I regard this "love at first sight" to be a kind of disease.

My eyes are kinda glazy and after she walks away I explain to the HB9 girl that I did not understand that she was a colleague, and that I am drunk, and that I appreciate her sending this girl my way, because I need a girlfriend. Something along those lines.

I don't feel very bad about this. But I am left remembering how I was set up with somebody I might have been compatible with who seemed to be interested in me maybe because I had a lot of social proof, but how I ended the process by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time.

Gotta learn not to do that. Any comments?

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"In the time of your life, live" - tennessee williams

First of all, WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING??

"I think I have love at first sight with you."

Really???? I mean... REEAAALLLLYYYYY????

No offense though, but your not going anywhere near to her with that..

and,

"My eyes are kinda glazy and after she walks away I explain to the HB9 girl that I did not understand that she was a colleague, and that I am drunk, and that I appreciate her sending this girl my way, because I need a girlfriend. Something along those lines".

NEVER SHOW DESPERATION, IT'S A SIGN OF WEAKNESS!!!!

1. Work on your openers.. (Try to come up to strangers during day time, nor night and say hi or hello - good for starters)

2. Build your confidence, build it as high as Mount Everest! LOL!!!!

3. Work on your body language, postures and facial expressions, give her some comfort..

4. Don't rush on your conversation with women, take your time.. Your not in a RACE!!!

5. Do something that can motivate you for game (read novels in relation to game, workout, etc.) BE MOTIVATED..

6. Peacock yourself, buy some new clothes and give a try on the latest trends of fashion. Appeal yourself, make yourself look as if your the type of an enjoyable person to be with..

7. Don't ever tell a friend your weaknesses, it shows your desperate and no, you will not have any pussy with that kinda attitude!!

I hope this advise will give you a better understanding in aspect of your life in game.. It's good your not ashamed of posting this, and I respect that.. But you gotta make yourself something happen before it's too late.. Be adventurous, be cocky and funny, be magical, or be the pussy magnet for all i care, LOL.. Just get it done!!

All the best, cheers!

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Good boys go to heaven, Bad Boys go everywhere.