So I met up with the (oneitis) girl that friend zoned me after not seeing her for about 7 months..It went well I was deffinetly more cool and not so afc..(Even tho I did ask her back to mine at the end of the night) But I couldn't get the attraction going..I dont know if i've changed and dont like her as much..I don't know

She said she loves me but not in that way..and she misses me so much and it upsets her that I cant just be friends with her cause she misses me...

So I don't know where to go from here..accept her friendship? and try and build some attraction and fun..

Or just leave it and give up? It is hard, I think I still want her..I just can't see a way to get the sex back!

Any Idea? cheers guys

Tell her: "Look I can't be friends with you, you make me horny just looking at you or thinking about you, so it's probably better if I don't see you anymore if you want LJBF!" Kiss her hard then WALK AWAY!

You got a better that 50/50 chance with that compared to a 99% chance of LJBF forever!

Good luck Bro

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Cool..yeah I just really can't see her mind changing..weve done this so many times in the past..I told her when I saw her Ill always find you sexuallly attractive, but that didn't seem to do much..

Everything seems to be in the right place bar the attraction..I banter her, had her buying me drinks, I have fun with her..I dont know

She said I was different when she saw me..she thought i was puttting on an act, but i wasnt i think its just where ive learned and grown not to be needy anymore and not really into her.

You are different, YOU are now King of your Manhood. walk away knowing your confidence! either she will come to you ....or she won't! It does not matter

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Fair play I like it..Weve started some banter about her working for me..She txt last night and said when do i start..I said "be round mine at 6am to wake me up..preferably naked"

Ha..I got no reply, so i guess it freaked her out..

So i was thinking about txting her tnite saying "erm you never made it to work tday.."

Or should I just leave it..see if she'll talk to me..tmoz or a few days?

then i can banter her "i'm not talking to you cause you didnt turn up to work..bla bla"

I would just leave it at that for a few, you gave a hint.....she got it!

Do not text the other Idea I told you, save that for "in person"!!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Ok cool will do..yeah I'll play it cool..and if I see her again i'll tell her that....About a year ago I told her she made me horny and she jumped over the table and started kissing me..but it went down the pan after that....But worth another go I guess

And what did THAT tell you, you got further friend zoned by not sealing the deal at that time!

Now to recover she must realize how thin the ice (and her chances) are!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

cool and can I only do that by giving her that ultimatum I gues? It would be like the 4th one I've given her..So you reckon that's my best chance?

As I was thinking just see her here and there, make it fun, and try and get her into me..or will that be painfull again i guess?

cheers bud

This may be your ONLY chance, in my opinion, don't back down! NEVER back down!
This will not work, you will just become a meaningless Satellite in her life, until she she needs you for something....and that something will NOT be SEX!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Ok cool dude..I'll try and arrange another meet in a couple of days and say that to her then...You make me horny when i see you and think about you..so i cant just be friends....and you reckon go in for a big kiss goodbye?

Sure, go for it! use good eye contact and kino as your making you point. BUT then LEAVE! Her emotions will be in a whirlwind... she will not be able to avoid thinking about YOU!

Good Luck Bro

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

cool ill give it a go dude ..cheers

Ok so I kinda thought I may have heard something by now..she obviously didnt reply to my last text..I'm in to minds whether to still just play it cool, as I don't want to chase her a usual..or should send a message? any ideas?

DO NOT CONTACT HER!!! You need to stay strong and do not message her!

If she decides to message you then I would not reply until she tries a 2nd-3rd time!

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood