Ive been trying to daygame girls on campus. Here is one of my predicaments since Im taken (just took technically) a summer course on campus. Please give advice below. Also, please take a look at my thread on everything going on here and give advice too:
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My college class I took for the summer has ended. During the class, which was every work day, there was this super pretty brunette girl who always sat near the front. she seemed smart by the questions she would ask and she was very good looking imo. She usually wore a tank top or a t-shirt, and jewelry such as a bracelet on the foot or on the wrist or rings or a necklace. She often wore converses or flip flops and short short jeans. the jeans made her booty stick out which made her more attractive.
I never spoke to her because she was never alone. Always with her friend. My personality is not the type to randomly make friends with random hot girls in class so if I tried anything, it would look forced/fake and it would then become obvious my real intentions of hitting on them. it would just seem very contrived if I just tried to be their friends for no apparent reason and even riskier if I went direct. The reasons? well, first the girl only sits near a crowd of girls and have made friends with all of them (didnt know them before). It's not like she seems to be the popular type but still it would be weird if a guy just randomly came up to her and became her friend especially due to my lack of any grace or skill. also, going direct is REAL bad since any rejection would mean embarrassment and failure to concentrate on studies since I SEE HER EVERYDAY.
Anyhow, to the last day, she was never really alone or in a position to really become her friend or talk to her. I suppose if I was really shameless, I couldve forced it and risked everything in a few occassions. Maybe I should have towards the end. But I knew it would affect my concentration and possibly ruin my grade if something went wrong like a blatant rejection, even if I just tried to be her friend and not anything direct. So yeah I did nothing. I did feel sometimes that she was hoping Id approach her or something but it may have just been me. Anyhow about 1-2 days after the last day, I found what seemed to be her in the class's facebook group and added her. She had a guy in her profile pic too and all other info was blocked. Its been a few days now and she hasnt accepted or sent me a message or anything asking who this is. So Im guessing she ignored it. Looking from her standpoint it makes sense since I never talked to her so she probably is like 'who the heck is this? what a beta move requesting me after the course is over when you were too scared to even talk to me once in person' or maybe even worse she didnt recognize me. I dont blame her since I probably wouldnt have followed up if she did accept with anything. But it does feel kind of like a rejection still and it stings. Advice?
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