Here's the lowdown. I'm 36. Recently separated and re- entering the game for the first time in over a decade. I've got women everywhere I'm talking to now just within the last week. The main one is 19 but very mature. I started push pull with her and she went crazy. She couldn't get enough of me after a brief hiatus. I ditched her last night and emailed her today to ask how she was doing (she was not feeling great the last few days). She responded "fine" but that her and some dude were going out tomorrow for a candlelight romantic evening. This after she practically told me things changed during the time we were apart (9 days) and she realized she loved me.

I think this is a game move to make me jealouse because before I put my game face on she said she connected with me on so many more levels than with this guy.

I haven't responded yet.

What's my next move??

Ok, I don't want to seem blunt but if you 'ditched' her why did you send her an email the next day? That doesn't seem fair on her really. Unless of course by ditched her you meant the 'push' phase of push-pull.

As for the romantic dinner thing she is just telling you that to make you jealous.

So your next move? I don't think there should be one if you ditched her.

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She is trying to get you jealous.. Don't fall for it or else she will sense that you are insecure.. no reason to get jealous anyway. You are not with her yet.. Just continue to play your game like you have been doing..

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So yeah I continued this through Sunday. She sent me no less than 3 or 4 emails that one day alone without me responding. One was like a novel in length. Yesterday I couldn't stand it any longr and responded back. She responded back that she was sorry for seeming "clingy"... and I shouldn't feel obligated to explain myself or pressure to respond. I responded back in my next email that she was no such thing. And that I was busy but would write back later. Two or three emails later she got scarce. In between I responded to all her emails. Bad move maybe? Damn she's push pulling and I'm push pulling.

Any advice as to my next move?