So this past weekend I met an amazing girl, B, through a friend of mine. All of us were at a music festival and B and I hit it off right away. From the beginning, she had strong eye contact and seemed to gravitate more towards me so i figured she was interested. I was extremely attracted to her and went in for a kiss early on, but was denied because she had "someone back home she didn't want to upset". After the initial rejection, I started giving her less attention which led to her coming up to me to talk or get my attention. After she continued to seek me out, I knew it was still on.

Throughout the weekend, there were numerous times I would tell her how bad I wanted her, or what I wanted to do to her, but because I respected her, I wouldn't let her just regret me the next day so I never tried to escalate too far. She started talking dirty to me, and we were all over each other, feeling each other up, spooning, Eskimo kissing the entire weekend, dancing with each other but she always denied me the kiss, until the final day when I tried for like the 3rd time and she couldn't resist. *Should I not have tried for that kiss and instead continued to resist her?* I think I kept building the sexual tension all weekend, which worked in my favor, but damnit, I couldn't resist her much longer! She was also giving me tons of signs, like talking about how she is now questioning her relationship, how he isn't her actual boyfriend but they are exclusive. She also kept putting herself in situations for me to seduce her, like I got to paint her tits and she would sleep in my bed or grind up on me. I think she wanted me to make the move so she could justify herself by saying she was innocent and it was me who came on to her.

Anyways, the weekend came to a close and she had to head back home, which is 10 hours away. We both really enjoyed eachother's company, both physically and mentally and I would like to see her again. She has already been looking up more Music festivals for us to go to and she said she would love to continue going on adventures with me. We've talked about going backpacking, which she is also up for. According to her best friend, B doesn't want to be in a relationship, and won't be for long. Also before she left, we were making out and she stopped saying she can't do this. She said she really liked me and didn't want to regret me. And a couple minutes later, she made me promise that I'll be her friend no matter what.

So my questions:
>Was she just using me the entire weekend for attention or whatever?
>Should I have just fucked her when I had the chance or was it right to control myself and not kiss her and escalate.
>I don't want a relationship given the distance, but I do want to see her again, when hopefully she is single. What should I do about texting/calling? I'm not the best at sexting, but I want to keep her interested in me for at least another month when we will be going to another festival together. I've been letting her know some of the things I wanna do to her when I see her again.
>If she really did want me to just take advantage of her or whatever, why would she turn away each time I tried to kiss her. Did I go about it the wrong way?
>If down the road, I continue to develop feelings for this girl, would you say she isn't someone I can trust. She justified her actions by saying that she would let a friend do this to her (spooning, walking around, arm around her). I really did work hard for that kiss and think I took advantage of her since she really wanted me at the time.

Thanks for any input.

She was grinding on you,..,I'm surprised hy that didn't lead to sex lol....if this was in a bed. You painted her tits?? Dude....can you say it out loud to yourself and see how utterly fucking ridiculous this sounds lol

Also, it just sounds like she wasn't into you though, could be very attention seeking. Keep in mind, girls who sometimes travel like that external fun (not all the time)

Thanks for the feedback Captain,

I'm sure I could have fucked her at any point, but I wasn't really looking for sex at this thing. Definitely would have been nice, but I really enjoyed going around listening to all the music and dancing with her. I thought that if I just fucked her the first night or whatever, she would regret it the next morning and none of that would ever happen.

I don't really think I just got used, I mean she bought me dinner and drinks and I didn't pay for anything for her.

I also see what you are saying about her being very attention seeking. When I stopped paying her attention and would talk to some friends, she would always run up and start dancing in front of me trying to get me to run off and dance at the next stage or something. I also think the fact that she painted her tits and then walked around topless the rest of the night is a huge red flag that she was just craving attention and I was giving it to her.

Any tips on how to handle a girl like this in the future? Just don't give her the attention? Fuck her and have her regret me in the morning?

And you really don't think she was interested in me at all? She said she was and seemed to always flock to me or find me and gravitate towards me. Even her best friend said "b wanted to bone me hard"

She is probably into you. But be careful she seems a psycho to me. Seems that you are making the mistake of getting emotionally involved, otherwise you would have fcked her already. She is definetly an attention seeking and maybe her current relationship is not giving her the buzz that she needs. By all means keep her as a fck buddy but do not fall for her otherwise you will be screwed . Having said that I think you already have otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions. If that's the case you gotta get out fast. Hmm I just read your last comment about you kissing her and she can't do this. Im in similar situation to you where this girl who already has a boyfriend has been seriously flirting with me via text for past 2 weeks and then saw me with bunch of girls, got jealous and said she is falling for me and so she needs to take a temporary break from contacting me. However she also said she wanted me bad. She knows I like her as well. I haven't contacted her for a week and nor did she. So I'm guessing she has probably lost interest in me because I showed too much in her. Also we haven't fcked yet. Or she wants to stop herself getting emotionally involved with me since this may jeopardize the relationship with her boyfriend. I thought about reinitiating contact but if she has lost interest I don't want to look like an AFC so what I'm going to do is to leave it and implement no contact unless she reintitiates contact with me.

Yea, you are probably right that I did get too emotionally attached to her, which is why I didn't fuck her right then and there.

I'm not sure this was really a mistake though, I had a great weekend with her, even without sex, so I guess that is all that matters. I'm sure at any point I could have fucked her, but I chose not to.