I want more than this but I don't know if it's worth breaking it off over.

So there's this chick who I fucked and I recently had a relationship with. When I first told her I liked her, she said she did too but she's not over her ex. I escalated with her regardless (that's where the fucking came in), and we went into a relationship shortly after...I feel she agreed to it because we slept together... but I felt like she didn't really take me seriously (ie. no real contribution into the relationship) so I told her to step it up or I'm leaving. She took it offensively saying it's an ultimatum and told me I can't just force her to be in a relationship with her when she doesn't feel ready for one.

I ignored her but she kept texting me saying she's okay with just dating but not relationship. I said fine, as long as we are only dating each other I can deal with us being just "dating" again. But now she doesn't even let me kiss her and I'm pissed off. She's done it twice now and she keeps telling me she's not in the mood or she's pissed off blah blah blah.

I like her and I want to keep her around but fuck me I'm not down for "I'll get to kiss you when you feel like it" bullcrap.

Can't convince a girl with logic. Time to date other women.

listen man, this might sound kind of harsh but you should seriously consider it, what you are doing right now is controlling and needy, you can't control people, they are people, no matter how much you want it to work, if it doesn't work for her, then it wont work, a relationship is a very mutual thing, and without trust, understanding, respect and mutual gain, the relationship will die

you screened her for what you want, and managed your expectations, she does not suite you for what you are looking for, either compromise and find a mutual ground that benifits you both or find another girl, you will only push her away by continueing this behavior

you don't need anything from her and she is not something that you can claim as yours, she is not an object she is a person and you will not be able to force her into anything, it will only turn her off

Oh my god!! seroiusly>?

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But the fact is she doesn't even treat me like someone she's dating. She gives giant hugs to her friend and she doesn't even hug me when she sees me. I just want her to treat me a bit better than she treats her friends (ie hugs and kissing). I can wait for sex again.

i agree with deanassertive. you should let this girl go because you are getting into something thats not worth debating about. it sounds like you invested alot of feelings into this girl and its better to bail now because things can get worse. take this as a learning experience and move on.

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