OK quick rundown: girl interested in me. Meeting her today for the first time in 2 weeks, I know she is interested, texting for a while.

Planned a Day 2 Tuesday, but moved it to today.

Anyway, today I text "Hey. 5PM at X. Bring your fun side "

She texts back: "Hey sweety i will is it fine if we make it 6? I would like to train before I come my bro, his girl n a friend r going there too...would you mind if they join? Sorry...hope u dont mind :/"


I told her once already that I plan on getting to know her, not her friends. But she has agreed to go for a drink with me later after the place. I am not thrilled about this, as I thought it was gonna be just us and she pulls this shit now. (We're going to a public market).

Would you go or not? There will be possibility to escalate at the bar later. Do I go and just play it cool and fun?

Screw it. Why should I be bummed about a stupid thing like other people. I replied with

"OK. You'r coming for a drink with me later though "

She replied: "Of course "

personally I would text her back after this with "Good first round on you "

its playful and shows you arn't going to be buying her drinks all night long which is a DLV

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Go. Don't worry about a later date. That shows neediness.


Hard fact: At some stage, you're going to have to gain accetpance by her friends if you continue to see her. Do that now, beguile the shit out of them. Make THEM the center of attention - not the chick, and watch her react.

Never fight the friends/family. Embrace them, and befriend them - then you'll have them wanting you to fuck her (figuratively...LOL).

The best case scenario is for you to meet the group, then LEAD the group. Invite them all elsewhere (instant date with a whole group, where you're initiating the departure is a huge DHV.). Don't invite just your chick - THEN; you're laying the tile to be walked on for a looooong time.


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Excellent advice here.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Thanks guys.

I'll give a more detailed report on what went down later.

The night ended in me kissing her hardcore and escalating (in front of her brother!).

I would just like some advice on where to take it from here.

The same night we part she texts me as I get home:

She: "Hey i hope that u had a nice n save journey home was really nice with you today...i really enjoyed it a lot wishing u a good night, sleep well n have some sweet dreams kiss :*"

I text her back: "You too. Sleep well "

She: "No kiss?"

I don't usually do this stuff but I have always shown a little less interest than she, so:

Me: "Can't do the symbol on my phone so ill give you a muaah...and a lick on the lips"



Today:

She: "Sorry...i was already asleep ooohhh...thats sweet wooohooo...in the end i got one :*"

Later

Me: "Hey. Sleep well? You popped into my head babe "

She: "Hey seety well...i slept too short cause of work :/ what about u? sweet dreams? ooohhh...i hope in the positiv way its funny...my hair smell like u


More playful texts, ending with me telling her to join me for a movie night tonight. She said maybe, didn't come though. She sent the last text.

I realize it was stupid needy behavior. But her interest is still there. Laying low for now. Just to give a little insight, we were very sexual and sensual yesterday, almost like a couple, doing the whole thing apart from going home and fucking. I have kept her interested for 2 weeks now without seeing each other purely via texting from Belgium until I came back. So she basically waited for me to some extent.

Any advice on how to advance. Should I treat the next time like a Day 2 or just see what happens?