Im gonna be short :

if a girl, that was (?) in love with you, but you couldnt take time for her, starts to avoiding you- or better to say, doesnt talk with you as much, as she did, what is the best course of action to get her interested again.

Is it to be more aggressive; lets say i told her, i like her or that if i didnt like her, i wouldnt talk to her.

Or is it better to remind her of her own mistakes- she being passive, ect


what is the best thing to be done here?


PS: i would like to go somewhere with this one
PPS: she is confused and doesnt know what she fells about me

It's to move on...and actually follow a path of pick-up of abundance mentality.

anything else please

I dont have time right now for picking up girls nor do i want that now.
and i do want to be prepared for a situation like this if it repeats in the future.

i overreacted.


I know what to do, just needed a little time to think about it.
Im stupid. She is insecure, not me. She doesnt know, what to think about me, because i havent talked to her as much (no time).

it would be wrong to talk about what happened, because that brings out just negative emotions.

It is right to talk, when she i ready for it, meaning i shouldnt bother her otherwise.
And when we do talk, positive things should be the topic, men should be honest and..
and
i dont even know what im doing here.

To everyone who was reading and if anything similar happens:
there is a possibility, that yout already screwed- showed (more as supoposed ) interest in her, but that can be good. Then wait.
dont be stupid
dont overreact
be calm
be positive
if a girl likes you, and if she respects you, everything will be ok

gl and hf

Ruii