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Im here all the time but i am loosing hope for getting this advice how could i get girl.
I am non talkative. I do not want to change it at all. Everyone write i should. I cant talk. I dont know what to say most of the time. Most of people think its creepy. I want to find girl who will not care about it. I dont want all of you to say me to change into a man of the year, macho or whatever else. I want to know how i could get girl without changing myself.
Everybody has to learn a skill without essentially changing who they are.
When I was in kindergarten, I was silent and non-talkative until this bully who was one and a half times bigger than me started to steal the snacks that my mom prepared for me. I didn't react the first time but the second time, I tried throwing punches at him. I got easily beaten of course. The only tv shows that I was allowed to watch back then were Sesame Street and Electric Company. This meant that I had the great disadvantage of not learning a few Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle tricks to defend myself.
One day, I saw the bully picking on another guy. So I befriended this guy. In another instance, I saw the bully stole the snacks of another guy. Again, I befriended this guy. Now, we're three. So we hatched a plan to teach this bully a big lesson. I had to talk a lot, you see, so we were on the same wave length.
One day while Mr. Bully slapped the nape of skinny guy several times in anger, guy number two pulled down Mr. Bully's pants. This got him distracted. I then approached him and hit him with a handkerchief with a stone wrapped inside.
I got reported to the principal and I had to talk with Mr. Bully's mom including the principal. I'm still non-talkative in person but I've learned this valuable skill set so I can use it when the situation calls for it.
Did I change myself? Of course, not. I'm still who I am. But no one dared to bully me again in school since then (except for a new big guy who was clueless about what I was capable of). Learn body language and start with just those four sentences. You'll be glad you learned a new skill set.

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