Ok so basically I went to this party and I met a HB9 and I started talking to her tried gaming her but she wasn't in the "best" of states so I decided to drop I got her name and added her on Facebook and started chatting to her there:

HB9: What u up to?

Me: Nothing I just finished pimping out my bed it looks so cool

HB9: fab

Me: You sound doubtful of it's epicness

HB9: lol

Me: I'll upload a pic of it's epicness
What are you up to anyways?

HB9: i duno
i feel rlly numb SPAM
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Me: About to throw a dictionary at you. -.-
nah but seriously I'm just drying off and why are you numb?

HB9: why i didnt spell anything wrong apart from the text talk/slang

Me: Did you not see the winky face?
I was joking
but why are you numb?

HB9: duno
i always am
u?

Me: I'm not numb if thats what you're asking...

HB9: no im asking
wuu2

Me: ahhhh just drying off
And surely being numb all the time is not a good thing :S

HB9: probs not

Me: Ah well my hands are like a radiator they're always really hot for some reason :L

HB9: lol i ment my brain is numb

Me: o.O
do you just have brain freeze?

HB9: its a methphore
metaphore*

Me: metaphor*
XD

HB9: same thing

Me: So anyway do you want to go watch Abraham Lincoln Vampire hunter?

HB9: maybeee

Me: Maybe usually means yes so when you free?
Although I'm ill right now sorry x

HB9: oh alright then its fine dw about it x

Me: Nah I want to go see it :L but it's boring on my own and you said you like horrors so come with

HB9: maybe it depends
cuz im going on holiday on the 8th
and i duno wether im going camping b4 that or not

Me: cool
where you going on holiday?

HB9: france

Me: oh yeah you said something about that a while ago
Oh yeah I'll post the epic bed pic
MY BED GOT LIGHTS
Although it looks cooler in real life

HB9: wehey i might do that to my bed actualy

Me: Oi don't jack my swag
It looks like one of those valentines sex beds you see in movies
(I was busy for a while so I didn't speak for her for 3 days)
(I opened up the conversation by saying)

Me: Did you end up lighting up your bed?

HB9: nope
(Silence for ages I was waiting for her to re-initiate but it didn't happen)
Me:Well this chat is interesting...
Like talking to a wall

So how can I go about re initiating and attracting her?

Also she's a black belt in Dragon Tang Soo Do (she posted a status about it recently) in case any of you think about using this to re-initiate

You're way more into her than she is into you at this point and you keep poking at her when she is just trying to get you to chill out.. You're approach is like a little kid at a convenient store with his mom and he's jumping up and down tapping his mom on the arm over and over saying " Mommy mommy! Can I please have that toy over there! Mommy mommy!"

You have to calibrate, you were coming off as needy for attention in those messages, you're telling her how cool you are and how boring she is? Thats not a neg my friend, you're pushing her down and bringing you're self up way too much. A neg is only necessary if a girl gets out of line and she certainly wasn't out of line. She started the conversation with you; reward good behavior.

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agree with him
Adding that I, the person trying to help you, even got bored reading your chat and skipped the last 5 lines out of boredom, now if I can't even hold focus how is she supposed to be aroused or excited by your chats? You held power in all the wrong places (teasing her for her words and numbness) and went weak when it mattered (going out to see the movie)
Also Remember your there to have fun with her not diagnose her medical problems

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So how would you go about getting it more interesting and sexual?