Girl told me she likes me but doesn't want to be in any relationship right now. I waited for four months, we banged and "dated" for a bit but I felt I was putting everything into the relationship so we constantly broke up and got back together.

The thing is I kept telling her to either become serious or I'm walking away. So she tells me she's serious and gets my hopes up but she has no actions. Every time we fight and break up she would text me like everything is normal but I ignore her. Eventually I give her another chance and the cycle continues...now I'm back at the part of ignoring her.

Wtf does she want from me?

I like how its like...yea I ignored her for 4 months, banged her then dated her then broke up, then dated her, then broke....

You sound like a broken record. Move on, or keep dying over her.

i think its less girls being evil bitches than it is girls being girls.

i think its a problem of language. ive been in this position before. you cannot tell a girl to be serious. shes either going to be or shes not. in this case shes not. why not? what are you doing that is making her not want to be serious about you?

taking her back is probably the first thing?

this is one of those interesting pardigms that seems counter intuative,

you have to start being more concerned about what you want, rather then what the girls want, if you are certain enough about it, you can weed girls out who are not interested in the same thing, and the girls that are on the fence are more likely to polarize to you for your approval, it is the difference between trying to get a girl and win her, and letting a girl get you

instead of escalating with a girl and investing yourself into her before you have fully screened her, screen her first harder, then invest, at that point give it all you got, it is always easier to just meet new girls and screen them, then it is to invest alot of your time, energy and emotions into one girl without screening her very hard, only to find out she didn't screen well, and a good part of screening is recognizing patterns of behavior, history does not always repeat it's self, but it tends to do so, the more experience you have dealing with girls, the more you will have an idea of what you wish to screen for in a girl, when you start to see these patterns you can realize this logically in your head, and even if you have invested a great amount of time/energy/emotion in the girl, you can still enact discipline to cut yourself off

if you were less invested in this girl, then you would have much less of a focus on getting her, and this would not be important to you, because you would feel less of a need to get her, less attached to an outcome

when you really are less invested the thought of cutting a girl loose who isn't screening well is much easier to emotionally progress through, instead of you fearing a loss, it is more likely she will fear losing her investment, rather then the other way around

there is an old saying that goes, the person who cares the least in a relationship, has the most power, this is mostly true, but really if your relationship is based on power games then there is no room for growth, only further manipulation and games

I think part of what may be a Tad misleading about the pua videos is that there are simply easy women out there..there mostly disguised looking normal..but sometimes as long as you don't fuck it up and you met a girl at the right place at the right time the battle is yours..but to be more specific pertaining to this post..there is an old saying "you can't turn a hoe into a house wife"...not calling her a hoe ..but if she isn't the settle down type..you certainly can't make her that.

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