Senario;

HB8 messaged me on POF. She seems to have a cool lifestyle and an interesting profile. We talk back and fourth for about 4 messages then I don't hear back until 24 hours later when she sends...

Hb8 "Apologies but I lost your message in amongst all the others and I couldn't find it How are you?"

Me "no problem", ect ect funny story

Hb8 replies 24 hours later again "ohh my god I keep on not noticing you messages! Serious apologies again! What did you get up to today?? xx"

I replied and kept it light and funny, threw in my number and said use this instead! However, again there was no response and I'd noticed she had been online for a few hours. I was in a "I can't be bothered mood" last night so instead of waiting for the next ohh my god I lost your message crap i sent this...

"You've lost my message again lol! It's easy to do with all the messages people send on this but I'll take the hint Anyway I'm going to bow out now! Happy fishing on this and best of luck!! My friend met her husband on here so it can work!"

So within 60 seconds of sending that I get a text off her on my phone saying

Hb8 "No hints cheeky, sorry... :p (her name POF!) xx"

I've not replied yet as that was at 11.30 last night! To be honest my last message was going to be my final one as I hate chasing girls but I'm wondering how you guys would proceed? How would you turn this around? I'm always up for a bit of learning and experimenting!!

If you have her number already then escalate things up to a phone conversation, theres not reason to still be dealing with text messages when you already been "texting" POF, escalate things to a phone call. THis will build her attraction and comfort with you.

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