Okay here it goes.
I met this girl 1 month ago briefly at a social gathering. We had a fun time, and we both felt attraction, but nothing really happened.
We texted back and forth, and she avoided telling about her boyfriend (we are all from the same small town, so everyone kind of knows each other).
We didn't meet up until around 2 weeks ago. Since then we have hung out at my place twice, but she's resistant to move too close to me, even though she obviously wants to.
At a party 2 weeks ago or so, she told a friend of hers she wanted to f*** me, and rumors spread to her BF, so he's overprotecting her 24/7 when I'm around. She keeps finding reasons to break up with him, but I feel like nothing will happen until then, because she's too much of a 'good girl'. (I have been running light BF destroying material on her in person.)
Last time we met up, I told her we couldn't see each other in private any longer, because I like her to much. (I really do).
She's confused and told me how she likes me a lot, but doesn't know what to do. She needs time to think. She wants to follow her heart, but her brain says something else and blablablabla.
I told her she should relax and we have all the time in the world, no need to rush things.

We keep meeting around at parties, at the beach, around town, at friends such, but I feel like I need to keep distance to not be LJBF'ed soon.

So, what do you think I should do?

Isolate/escalate!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Invite her to your home, have few drinks, escalate when the moment is right.. Make it feel natural when you put your hand on her leg or shoulder and not forced.. As if you did it without realizing that! Slowly escalate a bit more and more.. Then tell her you have a gift for her.. "Close your eyes and open your hand".. Kneel in and kiss her.. If the attraction is there, no way in a flying fuck she will resist especially if you had few drinks.. Few drinks, attraction, and taking a move, you will take her to your room and bang her..
However, next day or 2 she will feel bad about it.. Won't talk to you and she will tell her bf about what happened.. He will get angry and if he is the agressive trouble maker he will kick your ass.. If he isn't you ruined a relationship.. Chances are she will try and go back to her bf if he forgives her..

-Based on true stories with real actors and uncut scenes..

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Thanks buddy, sound like a winner.
Last time I tried this, (without the alcohol though) she sat and put her legs over mine, but did not wanna get any closer (sat 90 degrees at each other in the sofa). She somehow stops me from escalating further, even though she wants me to.

She wants me to escalate, but sort of gets up, moves a little bit, turns or something like that and stops me from getting too close.

Soon as she does you pull back too, go get a drink, play a game, start a movie, then start again, rinse-repeat!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thank you - sounds like a plan. Gonna try again in a few days.