Hey, been dating chick for few days. She's totally into me, and by totally I mean she's afraid about everything I do, she's worried whenever I'm going out with some female friends, she texts me each day telling me what she was doing etc.

The thing is, she still talks with her ex. She broke up with him and treats him as a friend (from what I've heard). I've seen her taking pills that's why I'm just wondering about her relationship with him. When we talked today she said that her ex was sleeping over with her and her female friend. She immediately added that they were sleeping separately. She was alone in her bed and her friends were watching movies & drinking. I didn't fuck her yet that's why I'm bit pissed off, cause I'm trying and trying and some AFC might getting something what I don't =P

On the other hand, why would she tell me that? If it wasn't for her I would think that she was alone that night at home. Wanted to make me jealous? Do you have any idea how to ask her if she's still having sexual contact with him without showing that I'm jealous or needy (which I'm not tbh, just pissed off). Or should I keep playing with her?

I say torture her. I usually never, ever ever advocate leaving a girl worse off than you found her UNLESS she is trying to do that to YOU. I say you tell her one of your girl friends slept over. Don't even mention being in the other bedroom. She will ask.

I personally think she may have slept with said ex.

Okay, it would build more attraction and keep her thinking about it. But still I wouldn't get an answer about her relationship with her EX. Asking her straight after that would however make me look jealous and that's not how it is :/

I think you should deal with her excessive neediness. Who cares about the ex? I'm curious HOW you're going to let her know that she's NOT the only one in your life WITHOUT fear of losing her.

ASSUME she's bangin him. Why cares if she is? You're (hopefully) bangin other girls, so... I don't think there's a need to 'ask' her anything about her ex, ESPECIALLY, whether or not she's still bangin him.

SHE'S LOOKING FOR SOMETHING BETTER! Be the guy that's BETTER. The "better" guy doesn't care about "other dudes" she associates with. Just a thought.

Z

You guys surely know how to motivate a player! It actually helped.

Just torture her. I never, ever give this type of advice. I'm certain anyone reading this will be like...what the fuck...did Michael say THAT?!!

Yea. Torture her. Make it seem like you're cheating, be OKAY to lose her. I'm serious. UNLESS YOU CAN HANDLE LOSING THIS GIRL (in which case if you cant you're already FUCKED), then don't do what I said.