I'm from Canada, but I'm visiting family in Europe now for 4 months. I've been keeping in touch over facebook with the HB's from Canada, and I've started chatting with ones which I've had on my friends list but never had the balls to talk to. I'm good at chatting, and can keep the interaction going for hours -- there is an equal flow, input, and good energy. Despite this, I find that I'm ALWAYS the one initiating conversations. My question is, should I just freeze out and wait for them to contact me, or is it acceptable to just keep starting chats?

Thanks

You have no idea what a freeze out is.

What you're suggesting is you freeze out a chick who already doesn't give a fuck. That's hot!



What I suggest is put the computer down and start meeting chicks where you are now. Women in Canada will still be there when you get back, I promise.

If you feel the urge to contact people in Canada, contact chicks you know. If you want to know these 'friends' whom aren't friends to begin with... MEET THEM when you get back.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Lol I didn't realize that freeze-out is a term. I meant go into silence and wait. I wouldn't say she doesn't give a fuck, on the contrary, the convo's are great, which is why I find it weird that I'm always the one initiating. That's why I'm asking, is it acceptable to always be starting the convo's-- generally speaking now.

and also, Yeah definately, I started day-gaming here not long ago, with solid results

If she isn't initiating conversations with you, you probably haven't build enough attraction for her to be excited to chat with you. If you stop contacting her it, you probably won't listen from her again anyway..

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What the fuck do you think freezing out is? Being silent, changing your behavior in an attempt to achieve a different result - a wanted result - from her. I freeze out when I get LMR, that's it. There is no other time I even consider it. If I consider a freeze out for anything else, I'll just dumb the bitch.

Then you say the convo's are great - but you always initiate... which equates to the convo's are great TO YOU. If they were that fucking great to her, you'd not be making this thread; would you?

And it's not acceptable at all to start every conversation. You want to be a man, not a fucking puppy she can pet when she wants to, and treat like shit when she wants to -- all the while knowing the puppy will be right back at her doorstep the next day. You show you're not complex - you're easy; not a challenge = not attractive.

You gamed her with 'solid' results? You fucked her? THAT is a solid result - anything less is mental masturbation.

Wake up.


RR

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Couldn't have said it better.. Nice one RR

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Lets clarify something, this is just a cutout from our last convo, before I went to bed. Secondly "freeze out" I used entirely by accident, again, I DIDNT KNOW it was a term in the "PUA essential terms and definitions handbook". This is just the last bit of our second chat.

DM
Favorite feature?

Her:
awwww
I am curious...are you always this fun?

DM
You don't play by the rules.
I asked first.

Her
well, I can not talk about my self, I think that is cocky

DM
Why? I want to get to know you.

Her
hahaha no, I will talk about me but I wont show off qualities that i think i might have, that is for you to discover
that is the fun of getting to know someone
answer: your gorgeous smile, lovely eyes.... please forgive my hormones can we keep on going?

DM
Haha I have to go shower... But, I guess its true what they say about Mexican girls after all...

Her:
first of all roooaarr, sexy image of you taking a shower second of all... I am not sure what is said about Mexican girls.. I geuss you'll just have to find out

DM
Listen, I’m obviously attracted to you too, but I need trust comfort and connection before you try to get in my pants

Her
I understand, and I respect that as much as I respect you and your decisions. Believe me when I say, the last thing I want to do is hurt you and it would be amazing if we could share fun and great moments together because there is nothing that i like as much as seeing you smile

DM
You poet you.

Her
I have an important question tho, when you talk about looking into my eyes, are you going to be super nice and crouch a little? or should i wear super tall'wedges'

DM
Now now, if thats the case
You should wear wedges anyways,
but I'll have to get a taste of you first

Her
Hahahaha but I am lovely!

DM
I'm going to go to shower then sleep then end world hunger.
Its been fun. Speak soon giiirl

Her
awwww good night, sweet dreams! D < 3 : **

You can invest in a long run relationship or hook up.. But are you seriously going to spend your next 4 month just gaming this girl ? Anyway, plants wither if they are not picked up on time.. My advice to you is to game her on the side when you have nothing to do.. Meanwhile, go out there and find you some europian girl that will fuck your brains out..

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I stopped here.



You're arguing every point I make, so you know better.

Work your game.

My "give a shit" broke.



RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Not arguing, just don't like swearing, its uncultured. All I did was gave insight into the situation, because obviously we weren't seeing eye to eye. No need for aggression. KimPa thats exactly it. Thanks amigo

This HB sounds like she is totally 'gagging' for it.

Do the whole male race a good service and go and fuck her. Simple as that!

Count on it, I'll post updates

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1) profanity being uncultured is your opinion. But I won't take offense to being called 'uncultured'. No big deal... I enjoy cussing. It provides much-needed emphasis in many scenarios, and has proven DAMNED effective in fucking women. If you don't understand how to surpass many barriers with the well-placed use of the word "fuck"... that's on you.

2) If you think any of what I said was aggressive - I suggest a knitting forum. I was speaking direct - not 'aggressive'. Grow thicker skin, my man.

Good luck to you, I think you're the biggest hindrance to your own game.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

RR You are a total beast just like the animals you used to ride.

Thank goodness I do have any daughters!