having trouble over coming an obstacle: a mutual friend



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 7:15 am 
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Call me Oliver.
I've studied seduction for about six months and have been actually practicing it for the last 3 months, with great success. One might say I've been on a bit of a hot streak, but I've run into a difficult obstacle with one of my lady friends. More than that, I find myself running into a problem with a friend of mine.
I met this girl at a dubstep club where all of my friends and i go on saturday nights. She came with a small group of my friends (i pretty much know everyone at the club at this point) so when we met, our mutual friendships made things very easy.
now, i number closed her at the club, and full closed her a few days later. Everything was going swimmingly until our mutual friend invited us over for a pool party. now, my friend and my target have been friends for a number of years, and he is typically a very touchy feely guy, a natural in the art of cocky funny without any training or effort.
my friend was very drunk and proceeded to AMOG his way between me and my target. his techniques are very childish, often drunken buffoonery, but effective. I haven't lost the girl yet but i need to eliminate the competition. Any Suggestions?


Mr. Oliver Wright


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 9:48 am 
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So let me get this straight Mr. Oliver Twist...I mean Wright ;)

You have been practicing for 3 months, gotten a few lays ....and are shockingly stifled by a drunk guy. Well, not much you can do to "stop" him unless she wants to fuck him. Why do guys think they can actually stop drunken bafoonery from getting fucked? Too often, especially in nightgame, I am this drunk bafoon without the alcohol, and I have had many guys try to AMOG me...going like "hey dude dont touch my dick!" "Hey! wow u fucking creep. how many women did u touch tonight"

"didnt u just makeout with another girl?!?! Hey!! stop"

Realize it doesn't matter. You aren't actually even "practicing seduction" as much as you are practicing what I call something which requires relatively little seduction as you had mutual friends (and all it needed was the slightest inkling of directness on your side): Social circle game with a hint of directness.

You met a girl who isn't committed, in a very social situation in the comfort of a night club (where they are conditioned that it is okay to be slutty in some instances) and you got her number and closed her (kudos on this but don't kid yourself that she actually didn't game you). At least you know the mutual friends made it easy.

As for them being good friends, more than likely she has already fucked this guy multiple times, snorted cocaine off of his dick, or what have you. You haven't "lost the girl" because you actually do NOT HAVE the girl...so not sure what your problem is?

Competition to eliminate? What are you exactly trying to do? Get her to fuck you and only you? I'd say learn rule # 1 of seduction - moving on. If she wants to fuck the drunk guy, she will.

There's no magical routine, AMOGing tactic, etc you can do to stop that guy if he truly does not give a fuck for you. I hardly acknowledge dudes. Hardly. Anything they say, or even do is futile. I've fucked girls that have known guys and even fucked them before I come into the picture and they are left holding their dicks in their hands. It's inevitable.

As for what happens IF this happens to me, I just amp it up myself....and pretty much lock lips...but then at this point: you both are fucked (not literally).

Welcome to the game player.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 9:10 am 
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i appreciate your candor, though i think perhaps i haven't made myself entirely clear, and for this i apologize.
first off, i don't want to come off as pompous in my previous opening, i'm merely stating that the game is pretty new to me. i've been at all this a grand total of six months, so i'm certainly not suggesting i'm a master already or anything, simply that what i've learned has worked great for me. i am truly grateful for the information i've absorbed so far, but i still have so much to learn. that's why i'm here. that's why i'm still having trouble with what should be such a simply problem to rectify.
now, for the misunderstanding. the problem isn't the girl. the girl can come or go i don't care have two others, the problem is my friend. he is my friend, and i don't want him stepping on my toes and i don't really want to be stepping on his toes. he's a part of my social circle and he's not going away so i've got to learn to live with him, but i don't feel like having this happen again and again if i can't properly neutralize him. normally with an obstacle i'd just win them over and get them on my side, but in this case he's already a friend, and honestly i have much higher social value then he does. i guess what i'm saying is that i've encountered a rather obnoxious sticking point. i need to disarm him appropriately because as i said he is already my friend, and i don't need to create an enemy so close to home, but currently with a friend like him who needs enemies anyways.


Oliver


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 7:31 pm 
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Rule # 2 player

Bros before hos. You call this friend an enemy, then you say you are of a "higher social value than he is" which I guess is your way of saying I got PAPERRRR. It isn't? Then you aren't that high up the chain here lol. Stop thinking in terms of who you are above in value, no one is higher or lower, that's just your defensive mechanism kicking in for justifying why you deserve the said girl and not him. If you have a problem with it, talk it out, but I really don't see the big deal in moving on.


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