Okay so I've been seeing this girl for about 2 weeks. Things have been going great, i took her to a couple house parties (im in high school) and we had a good time. Problem is... she is really looking for a relationship, she wants that lovey gooey prince charming boyfriend. I am not really into the idea of having a realtionship, I hate being tied down and nagged on. Worst part about it, she wont let me get any, Ive made out and felt up her tits, but whenever i try to escalate she shuts me down and says "I want it to be special" or "I want more than just a hook up". what am i supposed to say to this? is there any way to escalate without dating? or am i truly stuck? im new to this shit so dont be afraid to criticize, just dont be a total douche.

thanks,
Karl

Tell her she's not mature enough for you and to date someone who's younger who's not ready for sex either. Then say you will promise "not to tell her friends about her issues with sex" as you understand it would make her "feel awkward her being the odd one out".

i already killed that though, shes a virgin and said "my first time needs to be special" i said " i understand, and i think we got something special". Fuck, was that too soft?

She is down. She just wants to do it with someone that wants to date her for the first time. I don't think she can make any more clear.

If you don't wanna be tied down, move on and start talking to girls that are down to fuck without wanting a relationship.

i suppose youre right, im just not sure if im in to deep to pull out now you know? If I do date her I am worried I will be waiting for months on end...