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This is my first number close ever ever. So this is pretty epic to me.
when I set my foot on campus, i was crippled by major AA, but later got over it. Lately
first approach was an HB6(chubby). I saw her using a macbook pro so i opened by asking if her internet was working. then i rooted my opener by explaining why mine wasn't working. I complimented her for being nice, then added some pull by saying we wouldn't get along too well. She was giggling by this point. I asked for her name, then run the handshakes routine on her. She enjoyed it. added some comfort by talking about where she's from and all that good stuff. After that, I tried getting her to qualify herself by saying " u're cool, we should hang out, but i don't know if u can keep up with me. most of my hang out buddies are adventurous, and u seem like the nice type." She went on by saying that she's just really shy, and isn't used to people walking up and talking to her like that, and she appreciates it. (I felt like a G because she was complimenting me for approaching her). She later told me she plays piano, so I tried to bounce by telling her to come with me to the piano room, but she refused saying she was shy. At this point, I simply asked her what she was doing next week, and she said nothing really. So I invited her to a party of mine and took her number. After that, I spoke to her little bit, then I ejected from the set like a Boss.
This is my first number close. My first day game number close. This may mean nothing to u guys, but to a newbie like me, it means a lot. I'm making progress.
Second approach was a 2 set. HB7(identical twins). I opened by asking if they identical twins, then asked some more questions about being a teen. I later introduced myself, ran the handshake routine which led to some light kino, then nagged them on their hair. I asked them what they studied, and nagged them for choosing a boring major, but I later called them brave for sticking to it. (push/pull baby.) ran some comfort, then moved to the qualifying stage. I tried to get them to qualify to being adventurous, but they didn't seem to wanna invest. At this stage, they were both really enjoying the conversation, and having fun, but when I moved in for the number close, they refused. I was like WTF? But I wasn't mad tho. I continued talking to them, made some push/pull statements, and they complimented me for being bold. I later ejected for i felt like i was wasting my time.
These girls are from india, and they come from a strict family. Maybe that's why they didn't want to come to my party. Or maybe they said no because they thought I was hitting on them. No worries tho. I'll get it right with the next set.
So there it is for today. My first number close. I"m pretty happy.
Things I've learned today
1. girls love it when a random guy approaches them confidently
2. I need to disqualify myself in order to put their guards down even more.
3. I need to learn more ways to get the girl to invest.
4. I need to implement more kino in my routines. I've noticed I haven't really been doing this in day game, so I need to make an effort to implement more kino and look confident while doing this.
5. I need to stop my mouth from getting too dry when I'm talking. I might need to carry around a bottle of water just for this. (It's funny how the reason why I'm considering drinking lots of water is to be able to get girls)
6. My limiting beliefs are disappearing slowly but surely.
Feedback on what I can do to improve on my game will be greatly appreciated.
You should be proud of your first number close! You are the man, and dont let anyone make you feel any different. Keep that frame and dont get down if you get blown out.
From what you are saying on the second set, it sounds like you had a good thing going but you have to remember that culture can be a factor especially with chicks from India. A lot of arranged marriages are done in India so you have to conisider this may be a reason.