Whats up.

I'm John, 35, living in Colorado. I actually started learning pick up a few years back so I'm not a total newb, but I dont have any particular method to open, etc. I've found that unrelenting eye contact and a few well timed neg's are my fav.

I come here at a time in my life where I'm at ground zero. Just ended things with a girl that had truly captured my interests. We had a child (didnt keep it), and moved across the country together. All ugly details aside, I lost myself in this relationship. My life went astray, I put her on a pedestal and well, it all blew up in my face. I'm now just a shell of who I once was. I'm depressed, sure, but I have not given up hope, and I still remember myself when I was kicking ass and always had 2-3 women chasing me. All that confidence and power is locked away for now - I'm just not able to project outwardly yet. I accept that I need to use this time to analyse myself, regroup, refocus, and then jump back on that horse.

I moved here about a year ago, and during that time have been consumed by this relationship. I know that in due time, I'm actually in a golden place - no one knows me here! This gives me the unfettered opportunity to become anything and anyone I want to be.

Looking forward to what this community has to offer.

Cheers and happy hunting!