Letting a girl know your not interested?



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 7:04 pm 
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Recently some girls have gamed me, and in the ones I have no interest in I try to refuse. So recently this one girl was like really gaming me a lot, but I have no interest in her; the convo went like this:

Her: "My ex boyfriend got overly jealous, because I retweeted you. Lololololololololol ball so hard."
Her: I'mma rt all your tweets now.
Me: Hahaha how unfortunate
Her: No, it was actually pretty fortunate

(this is where I lay it on her)

Me: Man, its a good thing my Girlfriend isn't like that - I eschew jealousy.
Her: I suppose, jealousy can ruin a relationship.
Me: Sure can
Her: Who is your lucky lady
Me: I don't kiss and tell ;)
Her: Hm

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So ya, I pulled the girlfriend card - I think I've kept my value here but she seemed sorta upset. I didn't want her boyfriend (who I don't know) probably getting jealous and then investigating me and spreading rumors (ppl in my nationality do that). So I told her I had a Gf. Now what I'm concerned with is she may know this girl I'm interested in and mess it up some how - I'm uncertain. What do you guys think.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 8:16 pm 
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Introducing a jealousy plot line while still being flirty is a pretty poor way to show disinterest.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 30, 2012 9:34 pm 
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Inciteful answer. What would you suggest.


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 12:13 am 
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I'm no pro at being a pua BUT I have mastered rejection. Both in the sense of giving and getting rejected, which I think is important when knowing when to bail on a situation.

For yours, I would have said something like "yeah, that's why I don't have/want a girlfriend, I am far too busy focusing on ______" (whatever it is you do) be it college, career, life in general, yada yada.

That way you show her you have higher values but also lets her know that you don't have time for her/ don't want her. It's always good to stay friends though because that way she won't spread nasty things about you AND you can meet her possibly attractive friends.

Hope this helps?


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 12:56 am 
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This is childish mate especially if you don't have a gf

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