So I've known this girl for about 12 months now. Though finally I had guts and game to ask her. She always had strong resistance. Though yeah I only started reading and applying a bit since about 1 month now. So last night I was on facebook, she came online had a awesome conversation, set up a day 2 this upcoming week. So now I said to her lets catch up for a coffee then a movie. Now I have few questions and troubles.

1) What movie do I watch....

2) I never have coffee - only like cold coffee

3) What do I talk about... I was thinking just DHV myself like talking about how there was premier secondary school debating competition and they needed one more, and they picked me, even though I started this year. I got highest points I couldn't believe it and we ended up winning! Like about 5 of those in longer version?

4) I was thinking to neg her on her nails(she wears lots of nail accessories) then hence grab her hand and take her to the movie.

5) In the movie, what kind of kino do I do?

6) If I'm kiss closing at the end, how do I go about doing it?

7) What if like the arm rest in the middle doesn't lift? :/

8) I might wanna go in relationship, do I ask her out yes or no( Only second time I'm meeting her)

9) After movie do I take her to a park, or just end it there?

10) Its her birthday the next day, she thinks I'm unaware, I wanna surprise her right at the end with a like nail polish present or something she likes(I am fairly aware of what she likes)


If you can answer all those it would be awesome! Also any tips are awesome!

Also, I have already read the movie date post.

Whenever I ask a girl out on a movie date, I usually pick something fairly funny, or scary. In my opinion picking a romantic film is a mistake, because most of guys dont really watch romantic films, so why should it be any different on a date. Secondly if the film actually has a good story in it, that can give you something to talk about. Moreover if it's scary, you can be protective if your date gets scared and for example kino her (holding her hand is good, it always worked for me).

Make her talk about herself, don't just DHV. The girl will be comfortable if she talks about herself, and it will also make you look interested not only in her looks, but also her personality and hobbies (girl likes when guy listens to her, because many guys don't, so it's one of the important values to have).

Do neg her, its always good to lower girls value a little

If she gives you IOI's and you want to kiss her at the end.(this is what I would do) Ask her if she want to kiss you, because that gives you three options to say:
-if she says yes then, well you know what to do
-if she says maybe, you say something like should we check.
-and worse case scenario, if something goes wrong and she says no, simply reply by saying "i never said you could".

If she gives you IOI's, and you can tell she's interested in you. Then just ask her out again or something. That would be the best move to make in my opinion.

I hope these help, most of them come from my experience and some of those tips I found out by learning about the game. Good luck

Thanks for the tips!

Though no scary movie out SPAM :/

I think there must be some way to ensure a kiss.

very best thing you can do is not give a shit and stop looking for validation (no dhv)
you're most likely going to think too much and not be in the moment which will cause no fun.
bad fuking idea.
how old are you ? never ask those kinda things. just try have sex. sexual energy is important than femine energy.
bad idea... movie is so boring and no chance for talking.








my advice :

have fun. try crash and burn. push it, be a caveman.

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Great advice here. I would pick a funny movie or a chick flick... aka bridesmaids, friends w benifits, the notebook... something she would like 2 watch and feel comfortable watching. She wont judge u for picking one of those. Plus u2 should be talking and flirting a lot during the movie anyway.... the movie is just an excuse to get more intimate.

What to talk about? like my man above said made her talk about herself. Do the CUBE reutine... or palm read. This build attraction, keno, and will allow you to move into more sexual grounds w her.

GL
duke

Only 16 though in New Zealand legal age is 16 haha.

I think thats a good idea to use cube routine and possibly like 5 questions then save others for another time. The thing is I wanna make sure I'm attracting not seducing. I don't wanna come out as a cheat. I don't wanna feel guilty like using her. I know this may all sound AFC. Though after all the rule is leave a girl better then before.

Hey man, sounds like you're over thinking this a bit too much...the most important thing you need to do is just have fun, don't get too serious.

How old are you both, over 18? if so I'd switch it up to a night date for some drinks at a bar...I don't like cinema dates for the first few, mainly because you'll be sober and both of you will be nervous (alcohol reduces this), and you just can't talk, so can't get the date flowing as well or get to know them.

Thats the thing, we both are only 16. I could go like arcade, park, mall, movie. Thats like the main thing to do in the city.