hey guys, i am new to this forum so hello . I'm not new to PU by any means, but i figured a new chance to learn would be nice.

heres a little background on me: i am in college, good looking, throw parties at my house (my buddy and i rent one so no rules i suppose, shits awesome). anyway, i would have no problem saying i am very well known, and a very attractive individual.

But there is something i wish someone could explain to me so here it is:

I see a lot of guys who are straight AFCs to the fullest extent, but they are friends with underclassmen. My buddy told me that these guys know them through fb. How on earth can you know someone through facebook???

I heard him say that and thought "wow, these guys really are losers" but then... after a little bit of thought... i realized that they are talking to these hot girls, and i am not. they might not be sexual beings, but they certainly know how to open online without looking weird. I also realized just how intricate a part of these girls life facebook is. they upload thousands of pictures, constantly update statuses, and regularly discuss drama that starts over fb.

So... I did a little experiment just to see how easy it was to open. i liked some statuses, then poked them just to test the waters, and if that went well i was to message them. i did this, and it came to no avail. No idea how since i get with plenty of hot girls, was actually in a relationship with the girl who is widely accepted as the hottest girl on campus.

So i am really stumped. Does anyone here have any idea how its possible to do this without being weird?

PS: i open girls regularly in town, at parties, and wherever. this threadis really just to see if anyone knows how the AFCs get in where we consider shit to be lame.

Don't poke anyone. That is possibly the gayest and most AFC thing you can do on facebook IMO. They are probably saying shit like "Do I know you?" I personally do not like online game as I would rather meet someone in person. But I have tried the line above and it works pretty well if the girl isn't a bitch. Just as a conversation starter ya know. Good Luck!

I definitely agree that poking is lame, and always have. Thats why i did it. Gotta try new shit even if you might have been against it. Anyway, you mentioned a line you have used that works on nonbitchy girls, but you didnt actually post it. What was that line?

Open with anything that is an open ended question. Something that involves more thought than "Yes, No, or Hi". Suggestive questions are best. If you have any memory of the chick use that to your advantage.

My GF left her facebook signed in on my laptop. I checked her messages and I wanted to see what guys were using to open my girlfriend on facebook.

Out of 20 guys that messaged her. There was only one guy that said something different than Hey/Hi/Hows it going. The one different guy was me.

I said to her, "Wow you should really change your profile picture (insert name)" ((Yes I stole this from the online sarging thread lol))

Her- "Whys that?"

ME-Im just kidding. Hope you can take a joke, thought you were cute and wanted to say hi. Im (Insert your name here).

Took it from there. Met her a month or so later when I came into town and now were dating.

Ive also used,

"Hey (Insert HB name). I know I dont talk to you but theres something Ive wanted to ask you for quite sometime. I dont want you to think differently of me though. My hearts pounding out of my fucking chest just thinking about it."

Then after that it doesnt really matter what you say, you now have her attention.

I tried this one and got conversation but then she told me to fuck off because I One nighted her best friend and she was in a serious relationship. The opener worked though. I actually worked for her father so it wasnt complete bullshit but I dont think she knew that so you could still use it.

"Wow (Insert HB name) you are a spitting image of your father. Im not sure if thats a good thing or a bad thing"

HB-Definitely a bad thing. How do you know my dad?

Me-We used to smoke dope outside of BP when I lived in *insert city name. You didnt know?

HB-Are you being serious right now?

Me-What do you think?

And it took off from there. I actually one nighted her best friend off of facebook but her BF initiated the contact.

People say online pick up is bullshit, I disagree. It can cause you to meet women you otherwise wouldnt have AND is a good way to screen your selections. ive dated 2 chicks from Facebook/Myspace and banged 7-8 more. Not alot but my percentages are good with it.

Good luck!

I stole this from another PUA (can't remember name) but it is a useful way of poking:
Forst you poke them then wait for them to poke back (Usually takes a day)
This is an actual conversation I had with a HB8:

Me: You know you shouldn't poke strangers it's not too safe
your parents should of taught you about online safety

HB8:
haha ur right i shud think before i poke next time!

Me:
Let down.

HB8: Ok i give up too much effort to poke

Me: Slacker :L

HB8: I can go all night thnx

Me: Oh I'd love to test that

HB8: Lool cheeky

I then ended up meeting up with her and N-closing and going for day 2 on monday hopefully getting a K-close

I don't do FB.

I'm too old for that shit.

But - at my age... dating sites are so fucking easy it's not funny.

My sequence:

Join the site. Spend TIME writing your profile. Every line needs to have a purpose. make your profile different, funny, energetic and chocked full of DHV spikes. Only use pics that add to the DHV spikes you're droppin in the profile. For me - I throw up a couple of rodeo pics, a pic of me driving my boat on the ocean, pic of me at the beach, and one in a nightclub setting taken by a friend where I'm with 2 women and another guy and I'm the center of the group and EVERYONE is smiling...

I then peruse the pics. I'll single out about 10. I'll send the same fucking email to every one of them, BUT - I'll always add a sentence specific to their profile. Usually bringing out some very small detail from her profile that most men would gloss over. I'll end it saying "If you're real - I'm interested.". I'll send the 10 emails out, and that's all the work I do - they do it from there. If they contact me (60% will), I further scrutinize until I have 3-4 I can date then and there, and I might throw out another 5 hooks (5 more emails). The purpose is to find 5 women I can take out. Then I shut down the profile and dont' say a word. They'll always ask (there are the types that live for those sites) and I say that I'm into them,a nd I don't feel the need to be distracted. HUGE DHV... Game on. I do this 2x a year, and will have fucked at least 3 by the time I've left the site.

My lunch date yesterday was a chick I met online.

In my email, I told her "I have to say, one of your pics - simply owns me. I'm a fan. Would love to start a conversation."

She asked me which pic at lunch yesterday. I described it to her (She's 46, redhead milf, new grandbaby she was looking at in the pic). She said what made that pic so special... and I said "It's the look you are giving that baby girl. There's an undeniable look of love and adoration. You can't fake that. That's real - and it's endearing. I look at that photo and I think.... One day, to ahve a woman that beautiful looking at me with that same look... Wow... that's a powerful photo..." She was putty at that point. I hit her from an angle she didn't expect - and did so in a very deeply personal manner. I connected with her at that moment.

RR

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you guys are all great. thanks a lot. there is so much negative attitude towards online game, but you guys pretty much just shut it down. thanks a lot everyone who posted!

I dealt with the "Age Bitch" today.... I'm 45, she's 54. I wanted to drop this email string...

Me: If you're real; I'm interested.
Her: I'm real. Your profile is very different. I liked reading it.
Me: Your pics caught my eye. Your words thus far have kept my interest. You're a doll.
Her: You had an ex wanting a ring in 6 weeks? Thats nuts! I just want friendship.
me: "Friends" at the onset - works. Not defining it works much better. We should just know if there's something there under the surface. Friends? I agree.... BUT - You'd (potentially) be a friend I would want to kiss - often - and that would have to be addressed at some point as well.
Her: Well if kisses r involed and we like each other then there would be feelings involved .....So indeed i'd have to decilne on that until I'd feel like it was going some where and u r 10 yrs to my Junior.
Me: Age? I never even considered it a factor. You're an attractive lady. I've never worried about age. I rely on chemistry. I'm educated, intelligent, stable and very direct. I've had the life experiences of serving my country, making a living from a professional sport for 5 years, and being a successful small business owner - but none of that denotes maturity. I'm capable of in-depth conversation with groups of people 30 years older than myself moreso than those 30 years younger. Age is nothing but a measure of time. If chemistry and compatability are prioiritized moreso than numbers, it would never be brought up, by myself or anyone we'd meet. To be blunt - it's not that big-a-deal, at all. I'm deeper than that.

My attraction and desire for a woman holds more weight in my eyes than our respective birthdays. But, you're a beautiful lady; I'm sure you'll find what you're seeking.

Her: That was kinda rude
Me: Re-read it. Please point out any comment that was rude in nature.
Her: Ive known a lot of men and not one has ever talked to me like that and they dont even know me!
Me: They all should have. I simply told you the truth, and won't apologize for that. As for knowing a lot of men...every relationship you have had with a man has failed. Every one, or you'd be with him now. Maybe you NEED someone different. What's the definition of insanity?
Her: Ok so let's start this friendship. im sorry. If not anything else we can at the least see what the future has for us after we meet and spend time together. I am in if u r!!! XXX-XXX-XXXX Have a beautiful day. Im workin 10 hrs ttyl. Off to get ready for work U r a very handsome man .....


I'll call her tomorrow.

RR

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Loved reading that! Truly an art.

Was supposed to call her yesterday; I blew it off. I'll text her sometime today and play stupid.

Found a 59yo that is fucking incredible... After the 'age whore', I figured I'd try the same thing and see if I could compile a few stats on this issue...



me: I'm real, I'm interested and I welcome your scrutiny.
her: I'm flattered. If I were 15 years younger, I'd chase you.
me: [used pretty much the same email I used for the other chick, I tweaked it slightly]

Am waiting on the reply... LOL

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Same email - same results.

I'll actually call this one.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.