Posted: Today at 12:52 pm Post subject: A new Oneitis? FFFuck!!
So this is a girl that I've been really interested in.

Unfortunately due to some real weird texts: "Omg you won't guess what happened to in the bathroom, wait are you religous?" etc

Shit that I was trying to use to build intrigue and crap. Yea that stuff didn't work!! So I got frustrated at the 3rd or 4th day of texting once, her replying once and then never again for the whole day. So I just blew up with a: "Fuck this I have other options."

Later on I felt like a dick and apologized, so I've really been chasing real bad.

I got somewhere this time round, but it appears to be a terrible case of Oneitis

Here it is:

Me:Hey ###, mind if i ask sm?
Chick:um ok what?
Me:Wht did u thnk of me?Be as brutal as u like
Chick:uh you were nice, but then got a littl strange in your texts...Haha
Me:Yup knew it. my txts suck..opn 2 a 2nd chnce in person?
Chick:weeell considering you said 'you've got lots of options' im gonna go with im not the only girl you're trying to get your ins with and im not all that keen to get played haha
Me: true, i do hv options but i really likd u, i thnk thrs mre thn sex 2 thx, Fnd myslf awkwrdly thnkn abou holdn ur hnd n nt bein inside of u
Chick:Haha wow you're forward... But yeah i cant be sure youre not sayin the exact same thing to your other girls, so probably jst better leaving it alone ay.. Sorry
Me:Forwrd/honst/confidnt/blunt...i gt tht alot. I undrstnd, bt i dnt thnk u undrstnd my lonly heart. Hw do u mean plyd?
Chick:How can you have a lonely heart when youve got plenty of options? pick one, problem solved!
Me:###, U mk it sound easy...hv u hd a orgasm n felt empty? Lets go out smtm, c where ths goes n if we like each othr...the "options" will dissapear, wht hv u gt 2 lose

Comments, advice,critiques would be Fucking awesome!! But yea no reply after that, so we'l see what happens.
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Would you like to buy a texting vowel? Also, you forget to delete her name from the last text.

You're being a little too cocky. If you're aiming for C/F, it should be cocky funny, cocky funny, not cocky cocky, cocky cocky. (That's a lot of cocks in one sentence)


If you have other options, go for other options. However, this girl does seem to be interested because she was still texting you back.

I would give it a few days and then casually call her. You've lost some rapport so I would try to set up a casual meeting- perhaps get coffee and have a talk. If she gives you any of the "don't you have other options" bullshit, tell her you called HER, not anyone else. If she says she's busy, ask her when she's free. I don't think she'll just say no, but if she does, don't force it.

Saying you have other options is a big mistake. A girl wants to know that she's the only one you're invested in emotionally. She can THINK that you have other options because of how rare of a dude you are, but you shouldn't push it.

Just be real with her for a little. If you have a meeting set up, consider yourself back in.

If shit doesn't fly at all for any reason, try to accidentally bump into her somewhere. (considering you know what gym she goes to or what stores she visits) Don't stalk her, but this is in case that you are REALLY stuck on this girl. If you do see her, just be normal and have a casual conversation. Then invite her somewhere for a coffee and just talk. In my opinion you just need to sit down and show her she's different. (even if that's not the case)

Yea never mind the vowels, some text game would be great.(My intention there was to appear as if I wasn't putting in too much effort) Yea Im real cocky I notice that,unfortunately Im not really even attempting to use C/F thats just how I am.

In person I hope it comes off as funny, in text...Yea hopefully It'll get better in time.

The advice on the calling in a few days sounds good.

K so show her shes different and that shes the only emotional investment. Got it

Thats also great the whole part of her THINKING I have options. Always have to fall short before you learn.

Yea thanks I'll give a report to this so you can see your advice in actions. Thanks again mate. I really like this one

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