Ok, so I have already picked this one up and f'closed. This has been an ongoing thing, I guess its safe to say I'm "dating" this one. 8.5 red head, GREAT body, looks a lot like Amy Adams. She's a lot of fun and a FREAK in the sack, its awesome! So the problem?

She's separated, no big deal, I went through that whole ordeal myself. We hit it off right away, which was great, of course. Then the other night, we're hanging and she passes a comment that she's onle been separated a month! I was shocked, because it sure seems like she's been disconnected from her husband longer than that. She even has me taking her away for fourth of July weekend, which is fine, I was thiking of asking her anyway.

My question, am I setting myself up for a disaster? Is this just a rebound thing, which wouldn't be all that bad. This chick consumes a lot of my time, which I'm not totally complaining about, but should I let her?

J.

I dont see a problem? I mean she isnt asking you to babysit her kids is she?

Seriously live in the moment and have fun.

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Thanks bro, I do appreciate it, it's not like I'm going to not game other girls. Oh, and she has no kids (neither do I) which is perfect.

(and what fun it has been and continues to be).

Is it bad that I look up her husnband's attorney profile and say to my computer screen, "Do you know what filthy stuff I am doing to your wife?"

Um every one has their own cup of tea I guess??? Just enjoy the moment, but im assuming losing your wife is not a fun process, but more importantly if they were happy they wouldnt be divorced so he prob doesn't care that much, unless he was happy and she wasn't then he cares.

just enjot it bro hahah

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She initiated the whole separation, I don't think he's happy about it, but we don't talk about it that much, I really don't care. I know at any moment she can decide to go back to him, but as I said, I'm having a lot of fun. I'd be surprised if she went back, I only say this because I went through this. My wife left me, at first it was a "trial" thing, but it wasn't soon after she said, "let's just get divorced." It's a very daunting thing and not easy to do, unless there's something really traumatic going on.

My take, this girl simply wasn't happy, but this was all she knew and is seeing the whole old notion, "Is the grass really greenier?"

Well than be respectful of the situation I guess. Divorce is a bitch bro, you said you have personal experience. If she does go back to him, be cool about it, dont make a scene, and just respect that, I mean there are tons of other free available, younger and hotter woman out there for your tasting.

Enjoy the moment and leave it at that a moment. That really is the best advice I can give on this matter. I am so against breaking up a family so yea, yournot really ruining it, but if you see that they are trying to fix it dont be like boo him u like me more... just let it happen you know what I mean? If it works than you just helped save a shitty marriage and now it can grow, if not than you can keep doing your thing guilty free.

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That's really what I've been doing. She's actually coming to my summer house in a few days. I actually asked her if she'd been sleeping with husband because we use no protection, meaning no condoms, she's on the pill; she said she hasn't slept with him in three months. I do feeling kind of bad that this has no idea what's going on, but they did agree to separate, even if it was more her idea. NYC is a strange place in this regard, I think it's because most people live in small places, it's kind of hard to be like, "I'm going to stay in my sister's spare room for awhile". The likelihood is if your try that it's someone's couch. Not too many people like that idea of that. I have known people that have stayed together merely because of financial and/or living arrangements, it's weird; all that I've known eventally ended up splitting up, for good

She's definitely the coolest and most fun chick I'm dating, so like you said, I just go with it, and yes, if she went back to her husband, I won't be a douche. I do think it's unlikely, all the signs are there, but we shall see. I know when my wife left me she didn't even date anyone for, months, let alone sleep with anyone, I'm not so sure she has yet, even, but I'm sure you can imagine its not something I care to think about. If she has, it's one guy whose no longer in the picture.