I know I can't have a relationship with this girl but why is it that I keep trying? I know there's plenty of woman out there but every time I see her, I want to be with her again.

We dated briefly after she told me she wasn't over her ex. I disregarded it and we took things all the way to third base. But I felt she wasn't putting as much into the relationship as I was and we fought constantly until we broke up. Despite all this, I still want her, I don't know why and she told me she needs time to herself before she can date again.

I know I'm being selfish here by trying to force her to date me...so what can I do? Just let the person I have so many feelings for go? I refuse to become just friends with her.

Oneitis. To tell you the truth, the amount of oneitis I've had this year would make even you sick. All with different girls. You aren't alone.

You need to move on. How? Get out of the house and do shit, just do shit. Talk to other girls. This whole "she needs time for herself before she starts dating again" is bullshit. She just doesn't wanna date you.

If you can't stay friends with her, but also don't want to hurt her, slowly minimise contact, until your feelings are gone. Out of sight out of mind, it's the only way. Do this.

Stop talking to her, it doesn’t matter if she’s your best friend. Your solution isn’t “impossible,” but it’s unlikely. And judging from the way you’re talking about her, it’s very unlikely. Use that energy to achieving your wildest dream, fucking the hottest girls on the planet! And believe me that is NOT her!

By now someone else is slappin the dick to her.

Keep that thought in your head to help you be repulsed by her! And think I have 10 hotter girls that want to fuck me at any time!

Abundance is in your favor....they are everywhere!

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