Ok i'll keep that in mind..but ill just go with the cool email response for now..any other ideas anyonr to my response?

Well keep in mind that you are scared.

maybe, maybe not..if you knew the history ive turned up at her door, done romantic thing et.c..I havnt spoken to her in a while she messaged me back positivly so im just gonna talk to her and go from there..hence why i was looking for an approach with my reply..but cheers, i watched the vids there good

I don't know the history, but I know you.

You have not been dominant. You have not been the man, the man in your relationship. I know what you need to do...

So I messaged her back...

Her:
FUCK I MISS U!!!! hi and yes im a twat i know. hows the last 6 months been? lol x

Me:
Yeah? Well I am very miss-able..Normally its my model looks and amazing sense of humour..Or maybe the fact I buy cuddly toys for people..Ha, I've missed your sexy ass to!..So what you gonna do about it? x

Her:
i guess we could hug it out...or could meet for a dwink at some point. im going on holiday tmz though. your profile pic is strange x

Me:
Yeah that sounds good! I'll leave that down to you..cool where are you going? My profile picture is amazing! x

Her:
im struggling to work out which of the two of u is u...Spain for a week of tomfoolery. ok il msg u when im home treacle x

Me:
Oh I'm the one on the left with the paint on face..the guy on the right is far to sexy to be me..cool well have fun and I'll speak to you when your home..x

(the guy on the right is me)

So this is what I went with in the end what do you guys think?..