Hey guys need ur opinion on a flake.....I've been texting a girl, asked her to go ice skating, she was really up for it originally the date I set she couldn't do, but she suggested the next day. Plus when I txt her she asked if the date was still on and she seemed quite up for it. But today the day of the date she texts me to say her car needs to go to the garage and it's the only time they can fit it in. How do I reply to this?? How do I set up another date.

Two flakes in a row is usually where i say move on, but this might be a legitimate excuse. Set up another date? If she flakes again, delete her number.

First flake man!! Should I blank her for a couple of days...it acknowledge the text??

Watch this video on texting. Towards the 5 or 6 minute mark he talks about "playful persistance". This girl may want to hang w you... but shit happens. Everyday for a girl things are different...attraction isnt black or white. Maybe she is just having a bad day... Could just be bad timing. I feel thats what going on in my situation. Check out my post in this forum....

My suggestion is this

I would text her back... saying no big deal... im going to a coffee shop next week maybe ill c u then. Basically keep throwing out hooks and give her the opportunity to hang out w you. You must NEVER seem needy... esp w really hot girls w a lot of options. Watch the vid.. it really helped me.

Duke


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZO1h3Gv ... =endscreen