So I've hung out with this girl, not alone unfortunately. Haven't got the chance too. I've been on 2 like double-date type deals but I'm afraid that if something doesn't change I'm going to get friendzoned. Like I'm sexual with her and shit, I'm just worried.

How do I let her know I wanna fuck her and not just do double-dates for the rest of time. And I feel like asking her out on a 1 on 1 date wouldn't quite work just yet. Because she might think I want a relationship. And I've overheard her say before in a conversation that she doesn't want a relationship. But she'll still hookup with guys and shit.

Caveman her.

TELL her what you just said here.

"I'm not out for a commitment. I don't want to define it. But I'm in to you. We should hang out." That says you 'get it'. You understand. You two are on the same page...

I seriously see no reason to do anything but cut to the chase and talk to her. If you're already sexual with her - there's compliance there already.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Yea...two double dates and you didn't do anything? To be honest if she stuck around THIS long, she likes you. Seriously. That or she's sticking around for her friend or is desperate and has no options (equally great for you)

I guess you're right, shit I need to hop on that. Because she's def not doing it for her friend and she's def not desperate. Like 50 guys text her every day.

Just because 50 guys text her does not mean she's not desperate. You don't know the quality of the 50 guys. You could be her "better option" Just because I have 18 girls messaging me does not mean I'm not desperate for a girl of quality.

Most of the numbers I get are women I am attracted to anyways, some tag their friends on me etc, but yea - when a good one comes along she gets priority. You may be lucky to be one of them but do not mistake her limited options (like mine).

Remember - women hardly approach guys (from my experience) so their selection can seriously fucking suck.