i've seen this cute girl (easely an 8 ) at work that i havn't seen before (big company) because i needed her to sign a few things for. we chated for a bit and the vibe was good and she told me she has a good friend (female friend) where i work, which happens to be a good frienf of mine too.

when i got back i told my friend about it and she said they're actually gonna go out to the city this week and that i should come so i said yes.

the thing is, that i feel maybe thats setting the wrong vibe.. a too friendly vibe because we're gonna be three that one of them is an obvious friend.

what do you guy's think?

i thought maybe i should bring a friend also? an option that i thought about is a mutual gay friend of our's (me and the girl from my office) which we havn't seen for almost six monthes because he was abroad. he's not girly gay - just gay.

that might be a good idea and might be a really bad one. what do you think about that?

I would definitely bring a friend, set your strategy with him before, know which target is who's, and then make it happen. Make sure you bring someone who isn't awkward and can adapt to anyones company.