My Question: Does anyone have any simple lines (or guidelines) for getting a number close and a date? A little loaded I know, description of girl below.

The girl: I'd describe her as HB7, shy and athletic. I take classes with her and have gotten plenty of IOIs from her (I'm going to a bar with my friend, a random chick and her next week).

A bit about me: After about a year of rest and some counseling I've finally recovered from a long term relationship with a girl with Borderline Personality Disorder (for those who don't know what this is, just know that it sucks to be around). I've always been better than average at getting dates, but sometime between the beginning and end of that relationship I forgot how to ask someone out on a date :S weird right?

I'd really appreciate a nudge in the right direction, I'm just trying to get back to my old self.

Thanks in advance!

I understand where you are coming from and I can see why it must be difficult, but you are focusing on the wrong thing here. What you want is a specific answer for your specific case, which will be used on your specific girl. All of this = attachment to outcome. Nothing kills you like attachment to outcome.

If we give you advice, you rely on it, when you rely on something, you are weak, when you are weak, you hurt. Clear? Take a step back.

First of all: She is just a girl. And a 7 at that (I dont like giving women a rating but she doesnt sound like a stunning beauty). So why the intimidation? SHE IS JUST A GIRL. You're a man, you LOVE women (or are posting on the wrong forum). She should be something fun! Why are you worried? If you like her, go talk to her. If you find out she is cool, tell her! "Hey youre cool, lets grab a bite!" why complicate your life? You just got out of a complicated relationship, isnt it time you simplify your life and take what you deserve? This applies for EVERY girl, not just her.

Second: You should focus more on building your life and yourself into the person you want to become. Think about it: does the master seducer you want to become take time to post about a specific girl he's worried about asking out? HELL NO. He goes up to her and he makes her his. Does he worry about useless little things like what she thinks, or others think? He most probably is too busy with his life and the multiple women he is fucking to worry about this dumb situation.

go out there, and do what you are naturally programmed to do. You are a man... its in your nature to want her.

Love and lots of it
Mack

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