Hi guys!

I met a girl out, pkayed some pool, had a lot to drink and a good time. She goes home with me, and we're in bed. I tried to make a move, and she pulls away. I tried a few times more, but she says she doesn't wanna do anything first time. Should've just said ok and let it go, but I was quite driunk, so said something like 'hey, there' is a reason you came home with me, I know you want to'. She got upset and left, said we could go out and eat the day after instead.

So, what is your guys' tips to recovert from this, and get another shot?


Thx

That was very dumb of you! you might as well have said "listen your a whore, you came here to fuc%, so take your clothes off" because that's what she heard...women don't want to feel like whores and they want a reason to blame the sex on you, they want to think "it just happend" not "Im a slut who sleeps with guys on the first date".

Of course she wanted to sleep with you, she might not have been thinking it but in the back of her mind she knew there was a chance she would be having sex with you, she put her self in a position were it could happen, but you blew it big time! never make a girl feel like a whore!

Next time just say "ok, I respect that" back off, have fun, relax and then kiss her again when the moment is right, don't go right for her women parts like a 16 year old lol kiss her, put your hand on her head, pull her close to you, and when things get heated and she says "we shouldn't be doing this" say "I know its so wrong" and laugh...and then start kissing her and by then she should be turned on.

If she is not turned on then DO NOT PUSH IT! you don't want to creep her out! you just need to build trust, its hard to close a girl on the first date, no shame in waiting it out.

p.s you should apologize to her, tell her you did not mean to offend her and that you just felt a energy between the two of you that was amazing! tell her you are going to take her out again because you really want to spend time with her and get to know her.