Hey all,

Im pretty new as you can see by my 1 post but I've been reading alot and trying to improve my game.

Short story:
I had cancer when I was 13 and still walk with a walking stick with a limp... when people ask whats wrong it usually gets abit awkward. Im wondering how i should incorporate my disability into picking up women.

I'm going on a annual holiday next week and would love some feedback before I leave because I want this to be an experience of a lifetime. :p

Thanks,

Adam

There is a midget in a wheelchair who is in a lot of David Deangelo's material. And I'll just say, He gets more booteh then I could ever wish for. So, I think it shouldn't have any effect on your game.

As to how to incorporate it. Learn about vibing. Every time a woman asks you about your disabillity you just vibe from topic to topic until you land on a sexual topic. (this is a very short version )

could you elaborate abit more please

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wheelchaired midget can be seen throughout this video.

To elaborate on your situation, go C&F. Tell them you were in Nam or WW2 and took a shot in the buttocks. Then if you feel like it get into a DHV story about what actually happened.

(btw age wise, the less likely it was that you were even alive during those wars the funnier imo, dunt go civil war tho thats overkill)

Cancer < SPAM + recovery < the support structure around you < what you learned (life lessons) < How it changed the way you live your life

Remember that when your talking about your disability to keep a positive frame. If it bothers you...it SHOULDNT! you cannot help it, its part of you just as much as someones height, gender, or skin tone.

Hope this helps.

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"Be the same, only better."

Yeah man, I agree with the whole joking about it being a war injury unless you don't feel comfortable about it. Or just say its a pimp walk or something just joking then change the subject and run game in the same way as anyone would. At any rate, talking about what happened in a positive light in the comfort building phase is good, it really shows your willingness to emote. I had testicular cancer when I was 18 and whenever I talk to girls about it (not necessarily gaming them) with regards to how I liked how certain people treated me or about getting through it and what not they always seem to really bond with me. You're a survivor man be fucking proud. You've gotten through more shit then 99% of the people in any room. Oh yeah, and my name is Adam too, so you're totally a badass too.

haha thx for the advice and encouragement adam.

I'm definately not ashamed or embarressed about it I got over that along time ago I just want to figure a way to use it to my advantage as its visible 100% of the time.

I'll try out your suggestions.

Hey again,

I was thinking today about an opener like tripping a hb over with my walking stick "accidently" but dont know where to go from there...

Since i sit down alot at social situations im trying to figure out a opener that fits around that aswell as a whole routine after that...

help would be appreciated

"Kick my cane out from under me again and ill.........fall."
or

"Gotta watch out my cane jumps in front of people."

or

"Wow you almost fell, i coulda done that more gracefully."

all said c&f.

stack opinion opener, then dhv etc.

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-Ka-
"Be the same, only better."

Yeah man, I like that a lot. You could trip the girl up and just give her shit and say with a smile on your face "Jeez have some respect for the disabled" or "I'd stand up and talk to you but I'm afraid you might kick this guy out from under me" or "I bet you pull out old ladies' rockers, don't you". Then just transition into an opener routine. Think about the scene in Daredevil where Ben Affleck asks where the honey is on the table and Jennifer Garner says "What are you blind?" and he just smiles and says "As a matter of fact I am" then she feels like shit but is totally into him because he's still a confident alpha male. Maybe just try and evoke her to ask you about it to get it out of the way, then give her shit about it but so confidently that you have really high value. Then just proceed as usual.

Tell her you beat cancer, DHV, say your body fought it I had the same thing when I was 8 I had like skin cancer and they removed it and now i have a massive scar accross my wrist and they always ask about it,

Say you survived with no need for kemotherapy, and its not boasting or showing off as THEY ASKED YOU!!!

Tell them what a struggle you went through and thought you were going to die, and with the support of your family etc.



I me5 a bloke who was paralyzed from the waist down but had prosthetic legs and could walk using them both, dunno how he managed it but its something you can DHV about how you manage to cope with your disability.

HOPE THIS HELPS



also if you are obese, say you "beat anorexia" C/F

This happens because you let it happen. People are responding to you.

As a CF line, I would say that my leg was shot off in the war. Give them a little wink and smile.

Is this normally how it goes?

HB:Why do you use the cane
U: I had cancer

Pretty negative.

HB:Why do you use the cane
U: My leg was shot off in WW2
Wink/Smile

She will be confused for a second. If you hold tight body language (comfortable, happy) she will smile or laugh.

Couple of other fun ones.

HB:Why do you use the cane
U: Im lazy

HB:Why do you use the cane
U: It holds my sword in case I am attacked by Ninjas

HB:Why do you use the cane
U: It holds my snake.
HB: Let me see it
U: You want to see my snake? (go to unzip pants)
U:Oh the other snake. He is sleeping. But the other one is not.

You create your own reality.
If I had to use a cane, I would peacock the hell out of it. Solid gold (or gold looking)or imagine a blue glass cane.

Have fun on your trip......

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

hmm... i am seeing a pimp cane as a peacocking prop

thanks again.

ill see what works best

Firtsly congrats on beating the cancer

Ok I'm really new to this but having been through much medical stuff myself (two kidney transplants plus dialysis etc etc) based on some of my my more hopeless experiences I have this advice . . .

1) Keep up-beat about any medical stuff - otherwise the HB will feel sorry for you and immediately put you in the friend box.

2) If the HB wants to drone on and on about your situation resist the urge to give a long winded medical story - it may keep them enthralled but from my experience it almost always puts you in the friend box!!

This is based on my experiences but happy to be corrected by any actual PUAs out there!!

and if i was you, i would turn that stick into a ballin pimp cane. but thats just me lol

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