so the other night at the bar, i met this girl that goes to my college. We danced, talked, and she was pullin me around by my hand all night. One of her friends told me she had a boyfriend, so i asked her about it and she denied it twice. anyways i ended up blacking out lol and forgot to get her number.

Shame on me i know, but i messaged her over facebook a few days later saying.

lets get cofee blah blah blah,

she said that sounds amazing. So what i did was say" im free weds or thurs night at 6."

she messaged me back saying she works both nights but that we should reschedule.

I messaged her back sayin ***-***-**** those are my digits, give me a call sometime when your free.

she sent me a message sayin haha okay and she put her number...

Should i not call her? cause i figured if she had really wanted to reshedule she would have put when she was free or like at least asked me when i was free again. So by just giving her my number and leaving it at that i put the ball in her court. wrong or no?

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Yea its wrong, don't give a girl your number because of the obvious reason that she may not call.
Wait a bit then call her saying that your going out on (insert day here).
Or don't even ask just say your going out to a Starbucks and you are inviting her along.

When setting up a Day 2. Talk about times you're busy before times you are free. Don't just give a girl your number make her earn it. Anyway you already screwed it up by being too eager to see her again. Be desireless. Women want you more, when you act like you don't want them. And please tell me you negged her on facebook instead of just saying "hey, what's up?" Remember you gotta be cocky/funny. You're the PRIZE my friend not her.

Ill post the exact messages. the reason i said the bf thing was because when we were at the bar she was dancing with me holding my hand and shit..and her best friend came up to me and goes...shes got a boyfriend. So later i asked her about it and she denied it 2 or 3 times.

Canada was a good time, want to get together over break? I know that you
"Dont" got a bf, but lets grab coffee.

she said

haha. canada was a great time. glad i ran 5 blocks to get back to the hotel with you.
&& im like addicted to coffee... so that sound amazing!

I said this.. (1st screw up)
im free tommarow night around 5 or 6 and thursday night around 5. Starbucks?

she said

im working wed. night and a double on thurs.
so lets reschedule! lol

I said this back (2nd screw up)
k, sounds good. ***-***-****, those are my digits. Give me a call sometime when your free.

she said this back
haha. okay.
***-***-****

yes, see the problem is that im still learinin, and im realizing my mistakes after i make them.
but um yeah keep the input comin please.