Me and a friend decided to hit a strip club last night, it was my first time so I had no idea what to expect.

Anyway we went to sit down in the lounge area around the pole dancer and girls are straight over to you asking for a dance. I've done a fair bit of reading about this and the complete AFCs would just say yes straight away and lose a shit load of money for 5 minutes. I was cool and laid back and just said we're chilling tonight.

As soon as they know no money is coming out of my pockets they are gone. However I had this other girl come over to me and sit on the arm rest of the chair next to me. Was weird, she didn't ask for a dance, maybe her friends have already said I'm the cheapskate lol but we began talking and it last for half an hour. She was sitting right in my lap by the end of the conversation.

It really seemed genuine but you can never be sure. She never did ask for a dance, all it was was good banter and a lot of flirting. I wasn't giving her my complete attention to begin with while my AFC friend was drooling over her lol

I know this is their job to approach guys and do that kinda stuff but I must have done something right if we were talking for a good amount of time and she didn't ask for a dance. I took her out of work mode and brought her back to earth talking about what she does apart from this. I think I may have actually played a good game with this stripper but we only stopped talking because it was closing time and all the staff were urging us to get out.

So yeah, if any of you guys are good at gaming strippers then fill me in on your tips and let me know if I did anything good or bad. For my first time in that environment, I did way better than I thought I would.

Some men are good at playing the game. Women are better. But strippers are on a whole different level.

I really don't think it's worth pursuing anyone in a strip club. Trust me, I've been in your exact situation where it almost seems like they are genuinely interested in you, but that's simply not the case. At the end of the day, all she cares about is your money. I've even gotten a few numbers from strippers in the past. They would text me and tell me to come visit them at work. All they wanted was for me to come in and buy a dance, even though they knew I wasn't a huge spender at the clubs.

Strippers will give false IOIs and completely mindfuck you. You will never know how well you're doing because it's all a huge facade. There are a million other places in the world to find attractive women (with, arguably, a more respectable career), so why bother going for the most difficult route possible?

I pretty much agree with snarg. If this is your first time in the strip club, you are most likely young. Strippers generally speaking don't start viewing customers as possible boyfriend material until they are around 30+, well dressed, and obvious spenders without a regard to running out of cash for the night. A young inexperienced guy like you is gonna get eaten up by those women if you aren't careful. Also I think they can steer you down a path that you think you are doing good in a conversation and can take your learning and confidence somewhere else, when what you are doing, she is complying with for money, no matter if its a turn off.

Some will work you different than others. If one sees you all clammed up not spending anything, and she's bored, she might try to chat you up and let you think if you spend some cash for the dance or routine, it's probably gonna lead to a date. But likely shes got a handful of other guys that come in and tip her that are way above you on her pecking order.

I do want to add that going to a strip club is an absolutely amazing way to open up and learn how to talk to women. They're hot as hell, naked, and open you instead of the other way around. It'll teach you how to converse with women, and after you do this a few times, talking to a fully-clothed girl outside of the strip club will seem unbelievably simple. Now that I've thought about it, doing this was a huge way for me to break out of my shell, as funny as it sounds.

Just go with a bunch of good buddies and have fun and pay more attention to having fun with your friends than the women ofcourse

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Going to the strip club so many times really mixed up my game. Like Snarg said, you get a bunch of hot, naked, horny women opening you instead of the other way around. They want you for your money wad (a large sum of cash/ejaculate) and are sometimes able to get it out of you. Regular plain Jane women bore me most of the time after these experiences. Sure, they are easier to talk to after having strippers rub their G-stringed crotches and asses on my "junk", but I just can't hang out with them much anymore.

I used to get a lot of "Double Trouble" lap dances. That is two girls dancing on your crotch. It's very exciting and simulates a threesome with two hotties. I think those are worth the money wad... I remember these two strippers tried to get me to break the house rules. I'm supposed to keep my hands at my sides. This little/aggressive dancer that likes MMA put her forearm on my throat and pressed down hard, cutting off a good amount of my air. I don't remember what happened much after that. All I know is I still had a good time.

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i will go to a strip bar if im at a loose end and have nowhere else to go. mainly because i love female company.

im not interested in the dance. the girls will try it on and i am always up front with them. i tell them i am not there to buy a dance but just have a drink and a chat. those that want to chat will stay, those that dont wont.

ive had some interesting experiences. the last time i went was a month or so ago. this stripper sat with me pretty much all evening. i did eventually agree to a dance just to shut her up but i only gave her the money. i didnt see her dance.

strip bars are perfect if you just want a drink and some quick company cos the girls come straight to you.

i'm a writer so i kind of like listening to the interesting stories they always guarantee to tell.