I require some clarification on this one friends.

I'm starting to explore online sarging a bit more lately. There is this HB 9, who've I known for quite a bit now, and we rarely have a chance to meet up due to unrelated reasons. We rely on Facebook and text messages to keep in touch.

My question is: how often should I initiate contact with her to avoid her losing interest and being too available? Currently I contact her once every 2 weeks (I'm a little bit overcome with work right now) but I can't help think that she's losing interest nonetheless.

In fact, lately I've been the only one to initiate contact, never her, making this thing a little bit one sided. Should I wait for her to initiate every once in a while or should I just keep going at it? Ugh this sounds like highschool drama haha.

When we do meet up there's all this massive IOIs from her part, and a lot of flirting bla bla bla.....she'd be all over me.

I only need to hold out this Facebook routine for another month or so until I finish this damnable work project and can focus on women.

What makes you think that, withing one month or two months, she would not be happy to meet with you again, even if you havent had contact for the entire period?

Let me ask you a couple of questions: how confident are you? How confident are you about the IOI's you have been getting? And did you give her some IOI's back?

If you feel confident about yourself, that you are a great dude, interesting, etc and you feel confident that the IOI's were real and massive and you have been showing interest in her as well... i wouldnt worry to much. She will still perceive you as somebody to pursuit when you make contact again. After your work is done and you can make time, send her a text like: hey! long time no see! Lets meet and catch up . Then continue gaming ofcourse.

I would strongly advice against online game. If you look at it from a radical honesty perspective: do you seriously think that your 'online game' would stop her from falling in love with a dude she could be meeting on regular basis? I think you need to take a risk here and be confident you made a good enough impression. And if she does suddenly have somebody else, nothing you could have done about it.

in any way, good luck!

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