| I'm gonna go out on a limb and try to be helpful here.
I hang out with a lot of hot girls, but not the normal "super hot babes" that everyone drools over. My taste is different, so this will reflect that.
I go out dancing to partner dance clubs, and to dance parties. The partner dancers are their own little community, like this but healthier and much more gender balanced. Carpools and shared experienced bond the people together.
I work part time as a bartender, and most things are my dancer friends hiring me to do their parties, or doing a wedding/catering thing with the local dance hall owners (who also own a bridal shop)
A guy who is part of my local dance scene invited me to act in an amateur film project for YouTube. I figure it'll be fun, and there are a couple of hot girls involved in the project.
I like to cook and invite my friends over to cook and eat with me sometimes. Last night I went and picked blackberries, cooked a candlelit steak dinner for a girl I'm seeing and we made a blackberry pie together. We had sex, then when she left I went and took the leftovers to my best buddies house (he also happens to be the best natural I've ever seen) and we talked about life over pie and cartoons. This morning I stopped by my friends house with a couple of pieces of leftover pie. She's a hb8 former friends with benefits who is now just one of my best friends.
Monday nights I either carpool to a nearby town or go out behind the local coffee shop where Burner folks spin fire weekly. Bring a thermos of hot chocolate and just kick back and watch some incredible free entertainment.
I go to church, go to classes on wilderness skills and outdoor education, take part in empowerment circle type stuff.
Thing is.. Living a life like this you hang out with a lot of older people, a lot of physically "unnattractive" people, as well as alternative folks. But also, there are a lot of hot girls, you just gotta have an eye for them and good taste in knowing which ones are trouble and which are good for you (which is different person by person)
And despite how this all sounds like its constant go go go exteovert ahhh! I spend a lot of my time at home just cleaning and reading alone in my apartment. That refreshes me.
Just get to know everybody. They might be organizers, dj's, ballroom or Latin/swing dancers, church goers, nature nerds, really anyone. Just keep walking through the doors on the things that make YOU come alive.
This is my reality. It's good for me and I like it. Yours is gonna be different because you're a different guy with different interests and passions. Find yours and not only will you find women as a byproduct, but you'll be better able to connect on a real level.
Conventional hot babes tend to congregate on college campuses, in certain night life hot spots/ clubs, as well as clothing stores. Pick what your favorite demographic is and go check out a clothing store that caters to that crowd. There's one starting point. There's a million in this post.
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