She's messing with your mind a bit, some girls to get a guy all frazzled to see how hooked he is. Confuse your target, kick dust in their face, always stay a few steps ahead of them keep them guessing as to what's going on WITH THE INTENTION TO HAVE THEM THINKING ABOUT YOU, CONSUMED WITH THOUGHTS AS TO WHAT THEY MAY DO NEXT, WHAT IS IT THEY MEANT BY WHAT THEY SAID etc...

Best way to deal with this is to not react. Next time she's chasing you don't respond eagerly, tell her "Sry busy in meeting" or something to indicate you've got better things to do and when she keeps at you tell her you want to see her tonight and then just fuck the shit out of her.

Definitely makes sense man.

I need to get her so keen again that the boyfriend stuff doesn't matter. She used to text me how I made her feel so happy and she was having problems with the boyfriend and that I make her realize a lot of things about herself and asking to meet me (though always cancelling on me). Need to get her keen again like that, so I will try the ignore and too busy for her. At present she will not meet with me due it being "unfair" on her boyfriend. Makes me think there must be some feelings there if she doesn't see me as one of her guy friends.

Yet she had no issue doing so in the past. The implied meaning (what she's really saying) is that you currently aren't offering her anything better to be spending time with you instead of him.

Yeah, need to get that mystery/attraction back. My big mistake was adding her on facebook and replying to her 50+ messages a day. I think I lost the appeal I had from just that one night of getting along insanely well and meeting her when she got dumped. I'll try and be less available now and not chat on Facebook etc, she will she I'm still talking to others while ignoring her too so it might be useful that way.

dude, you really need to game some other girls and forget about this one, she's playing you for a fool

Women like to keep beta males arounds just to make themselves feel better, she's never going to get with you unless she thinks she has to work for it, i wouldn't tell her to fuck off but i'd be ignoring her for a good while whilst gaming other girls.

Think about it..... She had all the chance she wanted to get with you after her bf dumped her but what did she do, she went back to him, he's banging her and you're using your right hand

Well said, well said sir .
Leon just read the mystery method if you hadnt by now .

Thanks, but again I'll say I am gaming other girls - just this one is the one I get on with best and is the only HB 9-10. I'll check out the mystery method.

I think she is off on some family trip the next few days in Europe somewhere so she won't be texting me anyway. I'll do an ignore for a while and post when she next gets in touch. Maybe you guys could use this as a "field test" to see if her attitude changes or not.

Okay great , now the biatch wont bother you anymore

It doesn't matter if she looks like Megan Fox, just cos she's pretty she doesn't get to mess a guy about

The only way I can see you getting anywhere is by doing the following....
1. Do not text her
2. Ignore her until she asks 'why aren't you texting back'
3. When she asks that you say 'because I'm bored of texting you all the time, I've got better things to do if it isn't gonna get anywhere'
4. Ignore her reply until she texts you once more

That should help turn it in your favour if you don't act AFC again, you are the prize not her
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1st texted ignored, she texted just now - with "Guess where I am? x"

She is just as good as Megan Fox, but with a bigger chest! Yeah, really want to keep the humour going with her but if I want to change things - I definitely think you are right League.

Got another number from a HB 6 today, but I'd really like this HB9-10 for a relationship so I hope this is a good way to get her feelings back.

Ignore her text.

I hope you've ignored and deleted it, she'll be expected a reply like 'ohh i dont know, where are you xxxxxx'

you ignoring her makes her wonder if you give a shit or not which will only increase her attraction for you, keep ignoring her until she asks why, then ask me what to say

Yup man, ignored and deleted.

Some part of my thinks some guys would kill to get a HB 9-10's number, further getting replies from her, yet I've got one texting me non stop! But I know if things stay as they are, it will just keep me in the friend zone while she is messing with my mind.

I'll post when another one comes in.

Igoring her text does 2 things:
-tests to see IF she's invested (ignore one or two texts till you get a "where r u?")
-demonstrates to you that to build attraction with this girl would probably take more effort than its worth as you already made an effort and she didn't seem to reciprocate much (possibly she just wants validation from a guy(s) and nothing more - let some other sucker take that job).

^^second that. My opinion on the subject:

1. You're being yanked around like a dog on a chain.
2. I read this in 10 minutes... But this has been going on for ONE YEAR?!? That is FUCKING UNACCEPTABLE.
3. IMMEDIATELY DELETE any incoming texts without reading (please try real hard NOT TO give a fuck, or at least pretend to, by not reading and deleting).
4. This should (after X time) call her out on her BULLSHIT without you having to say or text one single word.
5. She will call you (not the "your-#-dialed-by-accident BULLSHIT). DO NOT ANSWER.
6. At about the 3rd phone call (or 3rd day if she's calling a lot), answer and give her the fuck me or fuck off ultimatum posted above (or something that conveys the same message). This is spoken and leaves no text evidence to fuck up your social circle. It's you and her.
7. It's obvious you DO NOT want this girl for a friend. So basically man-up and get her to fuck you or dump her BF and then fuck you or relationship you or whatever (though I'd recommend fucking her for a while first, she sounds like trouble).

ps. you fucked up big time the night she was dumped, BUT if she's been messing with your head for a year, she is definitely fuckable BF or no BF. As said above, your being beta'd and after flirting with you to get horny or feel desired, she's getting banged by someone else. NOT ACCEPTABLE. Deny her that pleasure, and change that frame. Please mind points 3-6 and let us know.

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