dude as much as people will hate on this approach,

just go get drunk with them at a college party. it always leads to sex. it aint hard. the way youre doing it is hard.

drinking and partying and fucking is a part of life. do it that way, its fun.

tried, tested and true.

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I'ma be what I set out to be, without a doubt undoubtedly, and all those who look down on me I'm tearin down your balcony, no if ands or buts, don't try to ask him why or how can he

College game is about one thing.

SOCIAL CIRCLE.

There's a great ebook called "Conquer your campus", which really does spell out how to become a pimp in college. (can't remember the authors name)

In short, get involved in as much shit as possible, make sure people know you and the chicks will basically game you.

ive read conquer your campus and all those tips from his emails ages ago. the point revolved around being naturally good at making tons of friends. i am not good at this nor too interested in making friends. especially if superficial parties with superficial not too smart people is the only way through

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Just trying to meet a 10.

i think i may have wasted enough time. im just going to go balls out and try my hand with everyone. i looked at the statistics and theres thousands of students. even tho it seems like i bump into them again who cares

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Just trying to meet a 10.

Are you for real? Dude you need a massive change in attitude or you are fucked.

If your social skills are shit, then go out at night and do as many approaches as you can to try to build up your social experience. In the day, you should get involved in as many social activites as you can (like I did in college!) clubs/societies/etc. If you do this, you will build up your social skills over the course of maybe a year and hopefully you won't be such a whiney little pussy bitch.

Seriously man, with that attitude, if you actually managed to get yourself a decent girlfriend right now, she would absolutely walk all over you. She's be sucking the dick of some guy who was interested in "making friends" in the club bathroom, while you stand around outside waiting for your princess. Seriously man, step the fuck up.

It might sound harsh but you need to hear this shit.

If you want to get girls, go for it. I am a 26-year-old virgin who is almost completely comfortable with himself. I choose to rarely go out because I do not want to drink nor spend any extra money (call me Jack Benny bitches ;D). I have student loans to pay for and a new engine to purchase for my '94 Isuzu Trooper. If I could go back and live in the dorms and experience my first three years of College again, I would, but... I can't and do not give a shit. Someday I will make Game and PU a priority but I am more concerned with finding a fulfiling job/career, building my resume and keeping in shape/losing weight. Your attitude does determine how successful you are. Make college work for you. It did not work for me because I did not know what I wanted and had fairly massive IG issues, big fat hairy fucking deal. If you do not want to have girls hanging over you in college because you prefer to focus on academics, awesome, with The Great Recession in mostly full effect that is a fair and smart decision. The only advice I have for you is to be completely comfortable with however you decide to go about college, and life in general. Best of luck, Sly.

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Call me Sly.
My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

I couldn't agree more op. It's really not as easy as you'd think. My first semester of college i hit on nearly 20 girls and only got a handful of numbers. The best time to get layed is not "in college" or "in the clubs" it's a moment and that moment is right now. Always be trying to get a gf/get layed and eventually you will. My routine varied during my first semester but i did promise myself that if i saw a girl i thought was beautiful, i would definitely talk to her - no regrets. I got turned down many times but i also got many 10's numbers which i'm more than proud of even if i didnt get to close with them. Dont be shy man, don't just hit on the 7s and 8s, go for the 9s and 10s too! Have fun with it, if you get turned down, so what? Smile at them when you see them in the hallways like you never got turned down. Be just as big of a flirt as ever, just don't ask them out again for a while. I got turned down by the same girl 3 times b4 i finally got a date with her lol. By all means make hott friends, but i wouldn't recommend it, every hott friend i ever had i ended up falling for and for some reason i just can't game my friends and i always end up getting my heart broken. Fuck having girls for friends!

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

My first week (6 years before I'd even ever heard about PUA) I went knocking on doors ended up with 20 numbers in the first week.

College is far and away the easiest SPAM to get women, fresh young women tasting "freedom" and testing it's boundaries. Most of them have their own place, honestly if I repeated my freshmen year right now I would have sex with over 50 women.

Stop going out and hitting on all of them go out and talk to them. Have fun, just have an enjoyable conversation with women. The best way to start out in the dorms in college is to befriend EVERYONE and then you have social proof EVERYWHERE. This will make you far more attractive of a person. Does this mean you don't escalate with some? Of course not.

I feel you on the friend issue and one of the ways you keep attraction and not be considered only a friend as keeping it a friendship on YOUR terms, meaning she didn't decide to be just friends YOU did. This will make you far more intriguing, "why can't I get him?" He's different. Escalation early on is very essential to trying to avoid the friend zone if you don't know how to make it a friendship on your terms.

Follow this Model:
Become Attractive to them - There are a number of ways you can get her attracted but you can become attractive to the majority of women if you know what you are doing(and no it's not just looks related).

Build a Connection/Comfort with them- This means you connect a little they are comfortable with you, this isn't as big an ordeal in college because most women are just learning about their sex drive.

Sexual Escalation - Start building sexual tension by way of words and body language(physical escalation).

Instead of just trying to hit on them, just walk up and have a conversation that illustrates you as attractive (with your body language as well), builds rapport, and comfort. As soon as you have her attracted, start to escalate, as soon as you have a connection accelerate (while paying attention to positive/negative reaction). Learning how to be/do each part of the model will make you an excellent ladies man.

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Just another guy from back in the day.

Blogging again living life: http://www.Scienceofnaturalgame.com

thanks guys. ive read a lot of these tips and its just kind of different in person for me. my dorm is cold-personality wise. they keep to themselves really. and honestly, i found that i just couldnt connect with a lot of people as there seems to be nothing to say and maybe its because i just find that theyre interested in other stuff than me? or we just dont connect.
or maybe they are avoiding me on purpose. like i tried joining in conversations by asking a question but they usually just answer it and leave me...

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Just trying to meet a 10.

I've read through this entire thread and your initial post as per your request. You've gotten some excellent advise, However! the only real issue I see is you! You are not in the correct mind frame. Even if you are average looking and have no style or social skills, you can still make friends, friends can lead into sex.

The problem I suspect is you are over analyzing everything, and doubting yourself. This can often give off a negative vibe and people will unconsciously be less receptive to your friendly advances.(it can seem creepy) I feel you must first go through a progression before you can start to work on girls for sex and dating.

The only way for you to progress to that state is to become in the right frame of mind.

if you approached 100 girls with the right mindset you will definitely make some friends and even get laid, the key here is to get you into the right mindset to have clear concise thoughts and objectives. (no chaos in the brain)

I am going to give you an opportunity of a lifetime If you follow my instructions with 100% effort and diligence, I promise you, you will make friends and even eventually get laid.

I am going to assign you a task. I want you to write an article for a new and exciting dating and seduction website. called " the natural pick up artist" www.thenaturalpickupartist.com It is still in the works and will not be launched for a couple of weeks. This couple of weeks will be your time to do research and obtain the appropriate data.

You will be required to do a survey for the site, then write a brief article based on your perception of all the research. At this moment, You will not be trying to make friends, or trying to get laid, this will be straight forward work. If you do a good job and fulfill my requirements, I will assist you in learning exactly how to get the girl.

I will only help you if you first help me and make an honest effort.

You will be required to approach all the attractive women you normally dream of approaching but never do, a specific amount of women in each year of schooling( from first year to seniors) You will introduce yourself as a freelance writer and a contractual employee of the website( I'll give you an exact rehearsed speech to say upon approach) You will then proceed to ask several specific questions in regards to campus life, social dynamics and dating in college.

As a representative of the website, I expect you to act in a professional and precise manner. It will only take an effort of 3-6 hours a week to fill the required quota of interviews. It should only take about two weeks at the most to complete this task.(even less time if you are efficient)

I will expect you to address all different types of cliques and women. From loners to the social queens, with one and only one objective< To finish the job.


But like I said before this will be work not play. I will expect you to have a clear objective. Your services will be greatly appreciated, and rewarded with my assistance for future pick up endeavors.

I only offer this as a one time deal, so think about it, if you are serious about doing it, PM me, I will give you all the details.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

This may be useful to me I will think about it and PM you soon

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Just trying to meet a 10.

I agree, university is all about Social Circle game!
You are going to live 3-5-7 years on the same campus with the same people, you cannot blow out all your chances (your reputation) the first day by gaming like Mystery and his funny hat... You cannot game in university like in a number game. You have to build social values, become THE tribal chief and all the women you want will naturally come in your bed!

We have a national student quote here in Belgium:
"Qui kote quette", it means "Who lives in a student residence/dorm have sex"
Everybody knows that university is THE place of crazy sexual behaviors. We are all adults away from home: we unconsciously recreate some tribal organisation and we allow us to have an active sexual life with members of the tribe. Girls are sexual human beings too, they want sex! You only have to understand "the rules" of SC game, which never change since Prehistory .

Completely agreed

And @ the thread author, anytime is an alright time in life to get laid, if you want to.

Best time to get girls is your early 30's when you're financially secure, got your logistics sorted, experienced enough to not make dumb mistakes and emotionally mature enough to have a direction in life.

(obviousyl i'm generalizing I've met 20yr olds who have their shit sorted and 40yr olds who are retardedly immature with nothing going for them)