She wants to take this slower so why not oblige her?

I have at this time 3-4 HB's I am on top of and another 6 that I have as potential targets but there is no rush.

This way I never obsess or think about one more than another.

She sounds cool and is into you but needs more push / pull maybe? lol.

Hope it goes well and please update RetiredRodeo .

The girls I mention in the above post are all in various stages of seduction. One I have been fucking for 2 years and one I just met with some eye contact and teasing.



I did not comment on your last text to her but it was a real gem.

"Busy... Weather-permitting, I'll be at the beach tomorrow - 11AM. I hope to see you then."

Classic push pull.

Busy - go away no time for you now.
Weather-permitting - maybe
I'll be at the beach tomorrow - 11AM - A call for her to comply and be there.
I hope to see you then - As long as you are a good girl!

Very very nice!

Was overcast yesterday. Met her for lunch instead.

She tried to hold my hand the entire time. It was awkward.

I blew off seeing her last night, and am in a holding pattern. I already dropped my SF exit, so I can bolt anytime - but the repercussions from that I wish to avoid. So I'm treading lightly...for now.

This is why I don't game on the fucking beach! I need to hit myself in the fucking skull and get back on point.



RR

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What is an SF exit please?

Keep us updated with the progress.lol.

Maybe she has a few nice friends as well

Heh heh heh.....

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That is fucking genius.
Diabolical yes, but genius.

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Very nice RR.

I think I am going to use it myself. lol

Guess my previous questions have been more then answered lmao!

You are a mean, inspiring man RR

So what's the latest on the beach babe then? Is she all over you like glue? lol

HA! JUST wrote a blurb about it in another thread.

Had a date today at lunch - went exceedingly well. I was slated to see Beach Chick tomorrow night, and I called to break that date on the way home from lunch. I was a dick - left a VM to cancel; and didn't care. I needed to cut that - too much drama and cling to really fit my lifestyle.

CHick today - fucking chemistry off the hook, or I'm a horny fucker, or both... Damn, just when i felt like I was in a slump heading for LTR with this clinger... I'm back in the saddle.

Once again - life's gooooood.

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OH - New plan... I have a date tonight, but I may cut it short by 10:30... THEN... I"m going to head to a club. Magic Mike comes out tonight... and I know DAMN WELL women are going to go with their girlfriends to see it tonight. There's a nice club - 30-40's crowd, jazz right next to the theater.... I'm betting it's going to be easy pickings!

RR

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I like your style RR but personally I find it hard to go out alone as seems as if I have no friends.

During the day, it's not an issue - it's a quick foray into the real world during my work day, or leisure time at the beach....Day game works best when you are alone.

At night - I don't go out often, but when I do... it's easy as hell to say "I'm waiting on a friend of mine... ". Later, who's to say you didn't get a text and he can't make it... So - you're still out undaunted. You can play the 'underdog' card in this case and DHV the fuck out of yourself.

You're sending the message to her: I don't need my buddy to ahve a good fucking time - I'll have one wherever the fuck I am!

I didn't go to the club last night. The date went way too well. Went and had Thai, then brought her back to my place. I opened a bottle of wine, and said "So... would you like to sit and talk, take a walk, go check out 2Cellos like I told you about... what would you like to do? I knew she'd defer back to me. So when she said "I don't know..." I said "grab your glass, let's take a walk...". We left, walked to a pavilion out over a pond, and I took some stale bread I had with me... We fed the snapping turtles (they know when people come to the pavilioin they'll be fed...) and I dropped Mystery's "I'm really thinking about kissing oyu right now..." when my lips were inches from her... She reached in to kiss me and I pushed her back and said "Whoa... I said I was thinking about it - I didn't say you were allowed.". She LOVED that!

So, after a while of making out at the pavilion, we walked back to my townhouse... she tried to take my hand in hers, and I put her hand in my arm instead as if I was escorting her...

Got back and it was ON.

Newbs: I knew if I wanted to get her DTF quickly, I needed her comfortable in my home. So - we entered, took the tour, gave HER the option to decide what to do, and when given back to me - I didn't move in to fuck her, I suggested we LEAVE. Why? The next time she came back in, she was familiar with it - it was comfortable. The kino had already been escalated rapidly on the walk - so it was a natural progression.

New date tonight (last night was a 51yo HB8 blonde, stacked, short)... tonight is the HB9, ginger 46, TINY petite little spitfire YEAH BABY! Sorry... got carried away - fire crotch's are my weakness! --- I'm taking her to a Tiki bar and grill overlooking the ocean. If all goes well - I'll have a bottle of wine and glasses packed to have on a blanket on the beach. This one, I'll say I already planned for us...she's big on men that are assertive MAN-types. In fact yesterday at lunch - she asked me if I was a handyman... If I knew how to work on cars, fix things... and I neg'd her hard for it. I said "Yes, and I change my own oil... SO let me ask you... do you cook and clean?" When I saw the stunned WTF look on her face I said "Nevermind... I can do that myself. The bottom line is neither of us NEED the other in our lives. But thus far, I WANT you in my life..... that's the best answer I can give you."

This lady CRAVES the alpha male - it's obvious. I can only imagine what a pussy her ex is.

RR

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RR you are totally bad man!

I have a lot to learn it seems. hmmmmmmmmm.

Last night is like a blur.... Dinner at a great place - outdoors, but the breeze made it cool - seafood, live music... She's in a summer dress and just looked fucking amazing. After dinner I suggest we either walk on the beach or head to a nearby club where we may be able to dance. She says "what would you like to do?" So I said "Lets get some exercize and walk on the beach. If you're nice...I'll bring out the wine." She asked if I was expecting to take her to the beach... I said "No, I was hedging my bets. If I didn't feel the chemitsry with you, I'd not have made the suggestion.".


We commented on how warm it was without a breeze at that moment, and she commented on the fact I wore jeans and a button down. I told her I had shorts/shirt in my car & to hold on and I went back to the car to change; she followed... When I took my shirt off, she drank it in - I was feeling fucking alive! She stepped away when I took my pants off... anyhow, I changed - we walked - THEN went back and got the blanket and the wine. Talked/drank for a while and she commented on how she had sand stuck on her and was sticky... I said "Maybe we should find a shower..." She said "If it was more private, I'd go swimming..." I told her no better time than the present and stood up - she stood up, didn't say a word - looked me in the eye and took off her dress. G-string and bra left on - and started walking to the water. I kept my underwear on and went with her... Light frolicking (shit was COLD in that water...) and we went back to the blanket. She wrapped in a towel and I said I'd either put my shorts on or take my underwear off so I didn't get the blanket wet... She said "What would you do if I wasn't here?" So I took off my underwear and laid down naked and pulled another blanket over me. She curled up in my arms... Fucked her on the beach 2x.


First time - I came QUICKLY on purpose.... We'd talked over dinner and she asked when the last time I'd been with a woman... I wasn't going to say "Less than 24 hrs ago..." So I said "It's been a while. Let's just say that..." She pressed.. and I just said "What month is Christmas?" And I smiled... I answered without answering LOL... So - to follow that up... I kinda acted nervous and tentative at first...she rolled on top of me and I warned her I might come fast. She smiled, kissed me and took over... FF - the second time - I was glad we were on a secluded spot. I was worried about getting a ticket from a cop. Holy shit. What a fucking night. I'm seeing her again Monday. I told her Monday night, but will break that and tell her Monday afternoon - that I have a work call to deal with (I don't - I just want her to know I'm scarce right now)... Frankly, I have the blonde coming over tonight - and I want a break.


My brother asked which I wanted - the blonde or the redhead... I said What sport did Deion Sanders choose - Baseball or football?



And I had FULL confirmation from her about what I'd expected... After we'd fucked, she was laying in my arms and said "It's been a long time. I don't get to know most men." I then asked. "I'm damned selective, but I'm a realist - You're one of the most beautiful women I've seen in my life. You get hit on a lot - let's get real. So... why me?" -- I ask this ALL the time, it only helps learn what makes me more attractive -- She said "You know how to BE a man. You can take charge. With most men, if I feel I can lead them - I lose interest then and there. I don't see that with you. but you respect me and don't think I'm beneath you or .... subservient. BEST part: when she said 'subservient'; she was thinking of the right word, and I blurted it out at the exact same time. Truly a cool night. Justified my thought process, there was attraction with her that had me wanting to cut glass the moment she took off that dress...


Oh - and I gotta admit, I watched Gambler's "Micro-seduction" video and wanted to put those elements into practice. I've always thought I did much of that as it is - but it was a clearer perspective seeing it described in his words. Huge props for that video.


Last night was literally a HOF night for my fucklife. This one's going to be tough to beat for a long time I suspect.



RR

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