I personally don't believe any of this will work. Girl doesn't care about you. Realize dick is common, and if she is a hot girl, she'll know this. These type of flaking/freeze out games only work if she's even interested.

I mean you can try to do this set up the meet, then active disinterest by canceling on her showing you got "other things going" but this girl could have a hurt ego and some other guy could be getting lucky that night.

Like where the fuck is your mental discipline. you got this bitch on a fucking pedestal. This woman don't give a damn about you! Your mom went through 9 months and labor and you probably admire this woman more than your mom, smh....come on son. Come on son! Theses are your options.


Option #1 Quit your job and move to a new city, lol (I laugh but if you can't handle the pressure, I know a guy that actually quit his job because he was working with his gf)

Option #2 Make a concerted effort to demonstrate value every day. Some guys stop shaving, stop bathing, start dressing like slobs when they get hurt...you have to do what is counter-intuitive if you want the woman. YOu have to have self-discipline. You have to demonstrate more value. I wouldn't talk to her that much... when i did I would talk shit to her (competitive banter)

Option #3 You need some mental discipline. You need to know how to manipulate your feelings and you do that with affirmations...

hmmmmm interesting ..

seems like its a fucked situation either way ,

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christian hewitt

I've been in this situation with someone I worked with, it always just completely fucks up. I get along ok with her now, because I went out and hooked up with other options asap and I no longer care about her.

But man, stay away from this shit. If you're hooking up with a girl that just very recently finished with a bf she had a lot of investment with, then you're most likely a rebound and she is still going to be considering getting back with her ex. It's a nightmare. I personally like to vet women and learn if they're actually capable of being single and independent for any length of time before committing to them.

alreayd quiting the job , look for apartments.. what r some expmples of demonstrating value ? evyerone alway tells me what i should do but never gives me the right answer or examples.. like where the fuck do i start with this pua stuff

can i get a straight answer here?

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christian hewitt

You can start by calming your ass down...

I gave you the answer...you just have your head up your ass to realize it was given to you. Jeesus christ.