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The conversation is too benign/bland, its offering no tension, nothing...you could easily carry the same conversation with a guy - its trite and offers nothing meanwhile you've obviously got a boner for this chick and its evident that you're just trying to keep her engaged in a dead-end conversation. I bet you felt a bit down that she found the book at the library rather than borrowing it from you.
You're apprehensive on making any sudden moves for fear that you'll frighten her off, but at the same time your walking on egg shells approach will lead to nowheresville, or even worse....the dreaded friendzone ("Oh he's such a nice guy, he showed me how to dance, helped me prepare for my excme, blah blah blah...").
If your objective is to bang her (which it should be regardless of wanting a relationship or not with her), you have to add some palpable tension to the conversation, a reason for her to look forward to your texts. Put yourself in her shoes. She likely has a dozen other guys texting her similar crap, what makes YOU stand out in her mind?
Drop the textbook convo it just seems comfortable for you, begin talking about random shit use the "OMG I just saw your twin" line or whatever, but have a rough idea as to where you're going, don't just say random shit for the sake of reducing tension - think before your reply to her next text. When she says stuff to you frame it as sexual inuendo and throw it back at her, be a bit of a shocker but don't be way out there or you'll seem schizo (not attractive). Don't be so afraid to shake things up, you've got nothing to lose at this point and when you start being a bit random and mysterious and stop trying to qualify yourself to her you'll pick her curiousity and she'll perceive you more as the fun, humorous guy that can make her laugh at any random point throughout the day. Give her a reason to want to hang with you, but at the same time I wouldn't ask her out as I dont see her having enough attraction to you at the moment to agree to a meet, however the potential is definitely there if you play your cards right.
Hey agent, do you think you could lay off my post for a bit? The other guys have shown me that respect. No offense but I don't agree with some of the things you say so if you want to make a "WHat do I text her next/ With Agentprovocatuer" I'm sure many guys will run to it asking you for help. Until then, could you show me that respect and just lay off a bit; I'd really appreciate it. People come here to ask me for my view point, after all the name of the post speaks for it self. Thanks bro! Peace & Love 