So I was introduced to a girl at work. The person who introduced her to me asked her if I were to ask her out what would she say. And she said she'd say yes. I asked her out the next day I saw her and she said she'd be out of the over the weekend. So I gave her my number and she texted me the next day. We texted all evening, and I eventually ended it with a Good Night text. Didn't see her until the next week and I asked her out to lunch. She said yes, but later on texted me that she got called in to work. I gave her the benefit of the doubt, and took her word for it. So I told her to hit me up whenever she has some free time if she wants to hang out and she said she will for sure. Texted her a week later (Monday of this week) and had a good convo but it ended with her not replying after 10pm. Convo was no boring, or weird so I figured that she fell asleep or got busy doing something.

So the question is, should I text her again tomorrow to see whats up or wait another week? And should I ask her out again for next week or wait for her to ask me?

Thanks!

text her without a purpose. meaning, dont text her for the sole purpose of 'seeing whats up' or asking her out.

text her to amuse yourself. tease her, play with her, sexually escalate with her, ask her personal question. push the boundaries, test the limits. have FUN.

avoid asking her out anymore. or wait until she reaaaally wants it.

I dig what your saying man! I wanna get her to chase be before asking her out or her asking me out. So what is an example of one of these texts?

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